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April 22, 200Gr8!

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 My New Party
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How To File A Complaint
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The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory 

Enter The Contest!!! 
How To Walk In High Heels Video Tip

Classic Fetish™ Resources

WANTED: Prom Dress Donations

Community News
TES Offers Free Training for "ProDommes"!
PARTIES!

Great Cage For Sale!

RAWHIDE CANE SALE!
How To Use A  Rawhide Cane Video Tip

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  Happy Earth Day! 

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My New Party & Demo with DSF!


Today was a fabulous day!  I chose to drop everything that I was doing 10 days ago and head off for an impromptu vacation away from energy leeches, creepazoids lacking home-training and self-love, and other undesireables.   While I took the time to smell the newly-blossomed flowers and contemplate how I would not destroy those who've annoyed Me, I decided it was time to have parties again. 

The reason I began giving parties in the first place was to meet new people who share My Classic Fetish™ Philosophy and to give fresh perspectives to what was available for  Fetish experiences.  Along with the miserable excuses for humans out here, there are some very lovely people who are worthy of the oxygen they breathe and I want to enjoy Life with them!

Well, on this beautiful day where We are supposed to celebrate Our fabulous planet Earth, I returned to the world of cell phones and the internet to several (7 as of the time of finishing this newsletter) calls from people who expressed their appreciation for Me and the way I do things.  This is something that occurs regularly in My life; I give thanx that I work hard on Myself to be the kind of person Whom people appreciate and feel good that I am in their lives.  I thank all of Y/you, My beautiful friends!  Y/you sure made My return to de-civilization a much easier and empowering process!

So, because it is time for Us all to commune again and strengthen Our energies with love and appreciation for one another and O/ourselves, I took the first steps to creating My Next Party!  It's a new year for My Events and I am creating a new concept for the fun!  So, I will most certainly keep Y/you informed and up-to-date of events as I create them!

In the meantime, on May 23, 2008, I am giving a demo of My Mastery of Movement I for Domsub Friends.  This is a particularly useful workshop because I will teach you how to get the most out of everything you do in Play.  For people like Me who do not like to exert much energy while creating intensity, this is a demo that you won't want to miss! 

Stay tuned for more info, be certain that Y/you are on My Mailing List, and don't be a stranger!

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How To Make Cell Phone Companies Accountable!


I have long maintained that cell phone companies (along with cable, energy, and transportation companies) need to be under the jurisdiction of the Sadist Community.  We need to punish them for the way that they ABUSE all of Us: 

  • they do not request Our consent for anything;
     

  • they rob Us with "hidden charges" and blame the governments for taxes We've never heard of, voted for, etc.;
     

  • they make Us do the work to clarify their errors - what's the point of their customer service?  Personally, I dislike being condescended to by the doh-doh on the phone explaining to Me what I just told him and insisting that he has resolved the situation;
     

  • they are not regulated by the federal government - except to receive taxes from Us for using cell phones
     

  • they DEMAND that We sign contracts that THEY can change AT ANY TIME WITHOUT NOTIFICATION;
     

  • they hold Us hostage with contract extensions for every little thing; and
     

  • they LIE about promotions and extend your contract AGAIN when you attempt to get what you were led to believe you were getting in the first place

along with a variety of other evils.

So, after dealing with yet another cell phone company annoyance, I took the time to investigate how to deal with cell phone company complaints.  Now, of course, the process is set up to annoy you, consume too much time and energy, and basically get you running around in circles.  However, if enough people follow the proper procedures - especially through government and legal channels -  cell phone companies will have to be accountable for all their heinous crimes.

I have compiled the information HERE where you can bookmark it and refer to it EVERY TIME YOU NEED TO.  Once enough people make a fuss, elected officials will get the bright idea that yes, We, The People need a bill(s) sponsored in Congress to regulate the thievery!  In fact, Legislators in all 50 states have introduced a total of 181 bills or other legislative pieces that would address consumer concerns about the wireless business, according to figures provided by CTIA-The Wireless Association.   However, the typical corporate lobbyists are working against Us and winning.

I have made it easy for you.  Now, DO YOUR PART to see that We, The People, are treated with respect for the money We pay these companies for what should be a basic service at affordable prices for everyone.

AND, Goddess that I am, I have included a link to amazing resources for you and your cell phone.

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The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory


My newest contribution to The Fetish Arts is
 The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, which consists of a complete curriculum beyond the typical training for the Elegant Lady and the Superior Sissy Maid.  I have designed My techniques according to My beliefs in Fetish as an Evolutionary Process.  With precise instruction, the Woman Within can flourish, blossom, and emerge from the caterpillar to the butterfly.

As always, My Classic Fetish™ Philosophy is at the forefront of the Conservatory's mission. 

Visit My My Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory website to discover the unique qualities that will bring forth the Woman Within with divine eloquence and excellence.  After all, W/we are all made up of equal parts of female and male, yang and yin.  Why should Women have all the fun with the fabulous lingerie and expressions of femininity in this world?  True, We have the liberties, but you should have the enjoyment as well in a safe, secure, and structured environment that supports the fulfillment of your desires!

Gatherings (including My famous Tea Parties), shopping, outings, and more!

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The Mistress Didi* & miss erin
photo by Sean Friedman Photography 

As always, My Classic Fetish™ Philosophy is at the forefront of the Conservatory's mission. 

For a "freeview" of the type of detailed techniques that are standard at The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, you can view the complimentary  How To Walk In High Heels demo video of samples from My GoddessGlide™ Workshop!

More about the video:  My GoddessGlide™ techniques work equally well when walking in flats as they do when walking in high heels.  And, most importantly, they are for everyone ~ females and males alike.  I developed My GoddessGlide™ techniques to alleviate stress on your leg joints, hips, spine, neck and to help your body rebalance from the effects of walking on concrete in these big cities so many of Us live in.

NEW!  Easy Wig Care Tips!   Click on Complimentary!

The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory is now OPEN with 2 locations (Midtown Manhattan & Jersey City) and incredible Grand Opening tuition specials!  There are no better tuition opportunities anywhere.  Check the website for tuition information.

Now, here is the big news:

Enter The Contest!

Win a scholarship!  Win a work-study internship!  A new winner is chosen each month during My Grand Opening!  Enter as many times as you'd like!   Check it out!

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WANTED: Prom Dresses
Make a Teenager's Dreams Come True


Last year, I was about to sell a gown to an acquaintance who resells designer clothing.  All the while I was preparing to bring the gorgeous dress to him, I realized that I would prefer to see someone who would appreciate the dress wear it instead of someone who could afford the dress have it at a discount.  Have you ever noticed how so many of those who can afford things don't look good in them?

As if the Heavens opened up and shone a Light on the right path to take, I just happened to look down at a newspaper and saw this wonderful article about The Glass Slipper Project which is one of several organizations that encourage girls to donate their prom and special occasion dresses to others who need them.  Their website also lists organizations in your area where you can donate.

Well, I don't think I ever had such a wonderful feeling when I dropped My dress off and saw the volunteers of all ages and genders with enormous smiles on their faces, making big deals over the lovely young ladies who were going to attend the fitting days!  It was fantastic!  And, when I got the special email about the prom photos the young ladies posted on a special website, I got a chance to see the incredibly beautiful girl who did the proper justice to the dress I donated!  I felt like My little sister was a fairy princess at her prom!  It was such a magnificent feeling!

To donate a dress in New York City, contact  Operation Fairy Dust  and here is a list of organizations to donate your women's clothing.  

When a young lady feels like a princess, love can reign throughout the land.  Remember that and go look in your closet!  Spread the word!

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Human Bird Cage For Sale


It's gorgeous and well-made.  I have had quite a bit of fun locking subbies in there!  

 

Too bad I have a small NYC apartment (that has the nerve to have two bedrooms and I still don't have room for My shoes) or I would snatch it up! 

 

Click Here to Contact The Owner with offers and inquiries.   Mind your manners and don't be stupid with insulting offers.

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Rawhide Cane Sale!


As mentioned above, I have connected with TabooLeather.com which sells rawhide canes at an incredible price!  How's $17.95 for you?  Visit TabooLeather.com and search (upper left corner) for "rawhide".  The cane that I use in My My How To Use A Rawhide Cane Video tidbit was a tribute that cost $40, 3 years ago!  So, take the opportunity to receive a great bargain!

While you're at TabooLeather.com, take a look at the other great products and deals!

Unique Handmade Bondage & SM Leather Gear
TabooLeather.com

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Community News & Tidbits


* Classic Fetish™ Resources

~ PARTY NEWS!

~ ~ PARADISE LOST  & SUITE ABBYSS ~ From the Press Release:

MUSIC ::: Industrial , alternative , dark wave , dark house , Rock , 80's , EBM , Synth-pop , electro , goth ..... and much more, much to the likes of "all" who attend.

PARADISE LOST - Friday, April 25th at Lucky Chang's, 24 Fist Avenue (1st & 2nd Streets), 10pm-6am, DRESS CODES strictly enforced: Fetish, Goth, Black; NEW: THE PLAY AREA!!! Absolutely NO cameras allowed.

Paradise Lost is a THEME party for serious-minded SCENE people in celebration of the 9 Mortal SINs of humanity.... People have been lead to believe there are only 7, but there are 9 (come to the party to find out what they all are!).  Each month's party is in honor of each Sin's title with several stage shows focusing on submission, dominance, sexually explicit acts of perversity, and gore.  THIS MONTH'S EVENT: THE 7 UN~HOLY, ANTI~VIRTUES, celebrates all 7 in one night, so as not to fall out of character with PARADISE LOST's original concept.  NEXT MONTH (May) is THE LIBERTINE's  Theme Party .... if you wish to attend, you must appear in 17th or 18th Century attire, full fetish, or at the least ALL black - anything else will not be tolerated, or very heavily TAXED at the door .    paradiselost9@excite.com

My Note:  This month, Paradise Lost will have 7 - yes, 7 - DJs!!!  1 for each unholy, anti-virtue, I suppose...  Special Guest:  DJ Hellroy who is coming on over to support The Scene!

SUITE ABBYSS - Saturday, May 17th at Kion, 509 E 6th Street, (Aves. A & B), 11:30pm-5am

Suite Abbyss is a little less strict with the dress code, although no MUNDANE or URBAN attire is allowed.  Think of it as a more relaxed scene for people in The Scene!  Expect the same genre of fabulous music and the great vibe you get at Paradise Lost with a mix of cool people.  No stage shows or fetish expectations, but anything can happen and anything goes!    abbyss47@excite.com  

Both parties:  21 and over

~ ~ The Baroness' Fetish Retinue ~ From the Press Release:

YOU’LL BE BOUND TO PLEASE AT THE BARONESS’ FETISH RETINUE - Sunday, May 4th at Uncle Ming's, 225 Avenue B (13th & 14th Streets), 8pm...

It’s bondage and mummification at The Baroness monthly Fetish Retinue party where it’s all about rope, chain, and the ties that bind. David Lawrence will leave you hanging in his artistic shibari suspension web, the Russian Goddess Lady Arielle will bind you to your seat, while The Baroness and her bondage beauties will guarantee your security in cozy cocoons of latex, plastic, and plaster, (in fact you may have to spend the night). Remember ,The Baroness' Fetish Retinue is a “A Safe Space to do Dangerous Things”, where your kinky hostess, with the help of her latex lovelies will make sure no good deed goes unpunished! Of course there are always bullwhips, bondage, and the usual mayhem!  The first Sunday of the month, this intimate fetish party’s location is Uncle Mings, 225 Avenue B, between 13th and 14th streets (above the liquor store), on the 2nd Floor, New York City. Doors open at 8pm.  A firm believer that “Any occasion to dress is an occasion to overdress”, The Baroness rewards those of you who do so with FREE ADMISSION if you look absolutely fabulous, $5 in Fetish, $15 in all black, and $20 in street wear, $30 in sneakers or blue jeans.  Contact either  The Baroness or Susan at 212 529 5964 to be added to the guest list.  Sunday June 1st:Uniforms www.Baroness.com

~ ~ The Gender Identity Project's Annual Trans Prom ~ From the Press Release:

The Gender Identity Project's Annual Trans Prom, Friday, May 2nd, 8pm...

Come to The Gender Identity Project's Annual Trans Prom and help us celebrate 25 years of the Center and 25 years of Trans community! This year's theme is 1983, so dig those 80s clothes out of your closet (or your parents' closet!). Our DJ will be spinning a mix of songs from the 80s and today! Come in Promwear, come in casual-wear, come in a limo or come on the a train....but just come! The Prom is open to ALL trans and gender non-conforming people, our partners, friends and allies! ages 18 and over.  Flyer and more information at Center CARE Events (http://www.gaycenter.org/program_folders/careGroup)

***  If anyone would like to join Me and My Friends to attend the Trans Prom, contact Me***

See Y/you at the Parties!  And don't be shy; come on over and say hello!  Just be sure to mind your manners....

~ TES ~ The Eulenspiegel Society ~ is offering FREE CLASSES to ProDommes.  Whether you think you're an expert or not, EVERYONE should take advantage of this special opportunity to not only learn  - there is always something to be learned - but to share your knowledge with the community. 

Now, I think it is just fabulous of TES to be so generous.  I know that this gracious offering is to try to allay any more stupidity that makes the front page of the New York Post and other rags. 

Personally, I think the dungeons should make significant financial contributions to TES for assisting in their prosperity.  What do you think?

Here is what TES has to say about their generous offer:

TES Supports Professional Dominant Community with Free Meetings

As reported in newspapers around the country, a customer of a professional dominant in NYC was injured recently in an unfortunate accident.

When something like this happens, it reminds us that we can never be too careful or be too knowledgeable when participating in consensual BDSM activities. So, In line with our 37-year tradition of supporting all members of the BDSM community, TES (The Eulenspiegel Society) is reaching out to all Professional Dominants and inviting them to enjoy all of our regular educational classes and workshops FREE during the months of March, April & June.

To take advantage of this offer, Professional Dominants are asked to Register at www.tes.org/pd

JOIN TES TODAY!

~ OK, I know they wanted to make a political statement, but that was not My first reaction...  So, to be respectful, click the pic, and go to their website.

~ FreeRice is a great way to contribute to the world hunger problem while enhancing your vocabulary.  So, it is not only good for you, it is great for your kids.  For each word that you correctly know the meaning of, several grains of rice are placed in a virtual bowl.  When the bowl is full, you continue to create another bowl.  The bowls of rice you create are donated to starving nations.  The site keeps track of your best score and stays challenging with a wide variety of words.  So, feed the hungry every day with FreeRice.  I contribute at least 1000 grains every day.  Go for it!

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Spam Folder Tip


I REALLY dislike SPAM, but worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people did not follow the easy instructions to make sure that Y/you receive My Emails.

So, here's a tip for easy viewing of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column.  Y/you should be able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the emails are from, the subject, etc.  If Y/you click on the FROM tab, your emails should sort alphabetically.  The same goes for navigating your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject and other tabs to sort them for easy reading.  This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and aggravation.

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See, Play and Party with Y/you very soon!

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Stimulating Quotes


"Everyone is in favor of free speech. Hardly a day passes without its being extolled, but some people's idea of it is that they are free to say what they like, but if anyone else says anything back, that is an outrage."
~  
Sir Winston Churchill

"There are worse crimes than burning books. One of them is not reading them
~ 
Joseph Alexandrovitch Brodsky

"There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self."
~
 Aldous Huxley


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Enjoy!

Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
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