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When it rains, it pours, and sometimes that can be a wonderful thing!  While contemplating My existence, I asked The Universe if I am truly a good person.  Well, I must be because EVERY time I ask that question, The Universe blesses Me with angels in human form.  I wanted to have at least 1 party soon ~ and now, I am having 2!!!

I know that change is good, even when it doesn't appear to be so.  I also know that when I trust in The Universe's Divine Guidance, good things will come to support change.  Since this year has presented situations that prevent My private-parties-for-the-public in hidden venues that are available just for Us, the next best & gorgeous thing has come along!  

My new parties for 200Gr8 will be held at the fabulous Lucky Cheng's because the wonderful Romello of Paradise Lost and Suite Abbyss fame is a true supporter of The Community and does not mind if I have My events where He has His!  In fact, He suggested the venue to Me!  Lucky Cheng's is private with 2 floors, comfortable seating, and lots of space to indulge in Fetish Fun!  There will be drink specials, so do come early!

The reason I began giving parties in the first place was to meet new people who share My Classic Fetish™ Philosophy and to give fresh perspectives to what was available for  Fetish experiences.   As can always be expected at any Classic Fetish™ event, PartyDomme Etiquette will be strictly adhered to.

So, I am bringing back SWIRL, a favorite that has been much requested and I have created VANTAGE, a new concept in Fetish Enjoyments!  Read below!

My New Parties

Vantage ~ Enhancing Fetish Excellence

Premiering Thursday, May 29, 200Gr8! In Celebration of The 2008 NYC Fetish Marathon! Workshop Begins Promptly at 7:30PM, Doors open for the Classic Fetish™ Play Party at 9:00PM

Vantage ~ definition:  A factor conducive to superiority and success. I love the rush I get from sharing My knowledge and learning new things ~ especially with Fetish techniques! Vantage is a combination event beginning with a hands-on workshop taught by a consummate expert in a Fetish Technique and is immediately followed by Practice Play with workshop participants in the techniques presented.  This gives workshop attendees the opportunity to meet and Play with people in a safe and friendly space specifically designed for Play! Soon after the camaraderie is built, the doors open for the Classic Fetish™ Play Party where others may come into the welcoming and electric energy that has been created by a great Fetish enhancement experience!   The energy is already set and newcomers can relax into the cooperative spirit and contribute to it.   The Vantage concept is designed to alleviate the "bad" attitudes and support acceptance of self and others.  (Quite frankly, those with bad attitudes cannot function in such a positive environment as Vantage presents.)  You will have the chance to meet people in The Scene you'd like to meet. Vantage is a Community Building Event ~ which is the point of going to parties, isn't it? I will present the First Vantage Workshop ~ GoddessGlide™ : How To Walk In High Heels ~ is designed for ALL persons, Dominants and submissives, females and males.  Participants learn how to walk in heels and in general for proper spine support.  A brief introduction to anatomy and kinesiology are explored and you learn techniques to improve balance, poise, and to relieve tensions on the spine, neck, knees and hips.   Basic movements such as sitting, rising, turning, and eloquent standing poses are presented in easy, yet precise ways.  You will also learn how to restore equilibrium in muscles and joints to prevent injuries.  The Mistress Didi*s skillful presentation techniques and advanced knowledge of the human body's design will joyously guide you to fully integrate your movements for a smooth, gliding flow when you walk, sit and move in general.  View The GoddessGlide™ Demo Video

The Return of SWIRL blending your Fetish with your vanilla! After-Work Fetish Play Party

Premiering Tuesday, June 24, 200Gr8! Starting The Summer On A Great Point! 6:00PM until Midnight...

The perfect after-work Fetish festivity, SWIRL takes into account:   accommodation of Our hectic schedules   the reality that you don't always feel like going all the way home to change into Fetish attire to go back out and party   after working all week, you don't always have the energy to hang out late into the wee hours of the morning, and   how many times you've wished you could go to a party straight from work and get your Play on without a lot of drama.  The idea is to be able to come to a Fetish gathering straight from work, have good conversation with good people, Play and still get enough rest to work the next day!   SWIRL allows you to wear your vanilla clothes with a bit of Fetish accoutrement!   There is no need to carry a heavy bag for full Fetish attire.  SWIRL gives you the opportunity to be Fetishly creative in so many ways while keeping it easy, simple and comfortable.   Don't forget to bring a toy or two!

Both Events at Lucky Cheng's, 24 First Avenue (between 1st & 2nd Streets)  F, V trains to 2nd Avenue ~ plot your trip here: HopSpot City Transit Guide Parking on Houston & Essex ~ WARNING: Do NOT park on 1st Street!!!

Stay tuned for more party info, be certain that Y/you are on My Mailing List, and don't be a stranger!

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As always, My Classic Fetish™ Philosophy is at the forefront of the Conservatory's mission. 

For a "freeview" of the type of detailed techniques that are standard at The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, you can view the complimentary  How To Walk In High Heels demo video of samples from My GoddessGlide™ Workshop!

More about the video:  My GoddessGlide™ techniques work equally well when walking in flats as they do when walking in high heels.  And, most importantly, they are for everyone ~ females and males alike.  I developed My GoddessGlide™ techniques to alleviate stress on your leg joints, hips, spine, neck and to help your body rebalance from the effects of walking on concrete in these big cities so many of Us live in.

NEW!  Easy Wig Care Tips!   Click on Complimentary!

The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory is now OPEN with 2 locations (Midtown Manhattan & Jersey City) and incredible Grand Opening tuition specials!  There are no better tuition opportunities anywhere.  Check the website for tuition information.

Now, here is the big news:

Enter The Contest!

Win a scholarship!  Win a work-study internship!  A new winner is chosen each month during My Grand Opening!  Enter as many times as you'd like!   Check it out!

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* Classic Fetish™ Resources

~ The Mistress Didi*s Articles including How To Approach A Mistress, Domme vs. dumme, submissive vs. substandard, and NEW ~ The cybertrog!

~  Last week of Purple Passion's Special Clearance Sale!   20% to 50% off everything, including books, magazines, clothing, corsets toys, Vanson Jackets, Wesco boots, corsets, shoes, toys, cupping sets, leather dresses and underwear, and more.  Plus 50% off all DVDs, $2 VHS tapes, and $2-$4 for old/out-of-print magazines!  This is an in-store sale and you really don't want to miss it!

~ Rawhide Cane Sale ~ TabooLeather.com sells rawhide canes at an incredible price!  How's $17.95 for you?  Visit TabooLeather.com and search (upper left corner) for "rawhide".  The cane that I use in My My How To Use A Rawhide Cane Video tidbit was a tribute that cost $40, 3 years ago!  So, take the opportunity to receive a great bargain!

~ Human Bird Cage for sale!  t's gorgeous and well-made.  I have had quite a bit of fun locking subbies in there!   Too bad I have a small NYC apartment (that has the nerve to have two bedrooms and I still don't have room for My shoes) or I would snatch it up!  Click Here to Contact The Owner with offers and inquiries.   Mind your manners and don't be stupid with insulting offers.

~ Make Cell Phone Companies Accountable.  I have taken the time to compile a detailed list on how to deal with cell phone company complaints.  Now, of course, the process is set up to annoy you, consume too much time and energy, and basically get you running around in circles.  However, if enough people follow the proper procedures - especially through government and legal channels -  cell phone companies will have to be accountable for all their heinous crimes.  I have compiled the information HERE where you can bookmark it and refer to it EVERY TIME YOU NEED TO.  Once enough people make a fuss, elected officials will get the bright idea that yes, We, The People need a bill(s) sponsored in Congress to regulate the thievery!   I have made it easy for you.  Now, DO YOUR PART to see that We, The People, are treated with respect for the money We pay these companies for what should be a basic service at affordable prices for everyone.  AND, Goddess that I am, I have included a link to amazing resources for you and your cell phone.  CLICK HERE

~ PARTY NEWS!

~ ~ PARADISE LOST  & SUITE ABBYSS ~ From the Press Release:

MUSIC ::: Industrial , alternative , dark wave , dark house , Rock , 80's , EBM , Synth-pop , electro , goth ..... and much more, much to the likes of "all" who attend.

SUITE ABBYSS - Saturday, May 17th at Kion, 509 E 6th Street, (Aves. A & B), 11:30pm-5am

Suite Abbyss is a little less strict with the dress code than its sister party, PARADISE LOST, although no MUNDANE or URBAN attire is allowed.  Think of it as a more relaxed scene for people in The Scene!  Expect the same genre of fabulous music and the great vibe you get at Paradise Lost with a mix of cool people.  No stage shows or fetish expectations, but anything can happen and anything goes!    abbyss47@excite.com  

PARADISE LOST - Friday, May 30th at Lucky Chang's, 24 Fist Avenue (1st & 2nd Streets), 10pm-6am, DRESS CODES strictly enforced: Fetish, Goth, Black; NEW: THE PLAY AREA!!! Absolutely NO cameras allowed.

Paradise Lost is a THEME party for serious-minded SCENE people in celebration of the 9 Mortal SINs of humanity.... People have been lead to believe there are only 7, but there are 9 (come to the party to find out what they all are!).  Each month's party is in honor of each Sin's title with several stage shows focusing on submission, dominance, sexually explicit acts of perversity, and gore.  THIS MONTH'S EVENT: THE 7 UN~HOLY, ANTI~VIRTUES, celebrates all 7 in one night, so as not to fall out of character with PARADISE LOST's original concept.  NEXT MONTH (May) is THE LIBERTINE's  Theme Party .... if you wish to attend, you must appear in 17th or 18th Century attire, full fetish, or at the least ALL black - anything else will not be tolerated, or very heavily TAXED at the door .    paradiselost9@excite.com

Both parties:  21 and over

~ ~ The Baroness' Fetish Retinue ~ More Details To Come:

Sunday, June 1st at Uncle Ming's, 225 Avenue B (13th & 14th Streets), 8pm...

Uniforms are the theme for the traditional wrap-up party of The 2008 NYC Fetish Marathon!  The Baroness' Fetish Retinue is a “A Safe Space to do Dangerous Things”, where your kinky hostess, with the help of her latex lovelies will make sure no good deed goes unpunished! Of course there are always bullwhips, bondage, and the usual mayhem!  The first Sunday of the month, this intimate fetish party’s location is Uncle Mings, 225 Avenue B, between 13th and 14th streets (above the liquor store), on the 2nd Floor, New York City. Doors open at 8pm.  A firm believer that “Any occasion to dress is an occasion to overdress”, The Baroness rewards those of you who do so with FREE ADMISSION if you look absolutely fabulous, $5 in Fetish, $15 in all black, and $20 in street wear, $30 in sneakers or blue jeans.     www.Baroness.com

See Y/you at the Parties!  And don't be shy; come on over and say hello!  Just be sure to mind your manners....

~ TES ~ The Eulenspiegel Society ~ is offering FREE CLASSES to ProDommes.  Whether you think you're an expert or not, EVERYONE should take advantage of this special opportunity to not only learn  - there is always something to be learned - but to share your knowledge with the community. 

Now, I think it is just fabulous of TES to be so generous.  I know that this gracious offering is to try to allay any more stupidity that makes the front page of the New York Post and other rags. 

Personally, I think the dungeons should make significant financial contributions to TES for assisting in their prosperity.  What do you think?

Here is what TES has to say about their generous offer:

TES Supports Professional Dominant Community with Free Meetings

As reported in newspapers around the country, a customer of a professional dominant in NYC was injured recently in an unfortunate accident.

When something like this happens, it reminds us that we can never be too careful or be too knowledgeable when participating in consensual BDSM activities. So, In line with our 37-year tradition of supporting all members of the BDSM community, TES (The Eulenspiegel Society) is reaching out to all Professional Dominants and inviting them to enjoy all of our regular educational classes and workshops FREE during the months of March, April & June.

To take advantage of this offer, Professional Dominants are asked to Register at www.tes.org/pd

JOIN TES TODAY!

~ Donate Dresses for Proms ~ Make a Teenager's Dream Come True!  The Glass Slipper Project is one of several organizations that encourage girls to donate their prom and special occasion dresses to others who need them.  Their website also lists organizations in your area where you can donate.  To donate a dress in New York City, contact  Operation Fairy Dust  and here is a list of organizations to donate your women's clothing.   When a young lady feels like a princess, love can reign throughout the land.  Remember that and go look in your closet!  Spread the word!

~ FreeRice is a great way to contribute to the world hunger problem while enhancing your vocabulary.  So, it is not only good for you, it is great for your kids.  For each word that you correctly know the meaning of, several grains of rice are placed in a virtual bowl.  When the bowl is full, you continue to create another bowl.  The bowls of rice you create are donated to starving nations.  The site keeps track of your best score and stays challenging with a wide variety of words.  So, feed the hungry every day with FreeRice.  I contribute at least 1000 grains every day.  Go for it!

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I REALLY dislike SPAM, but worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people did not follow the easy instructions to make sure that Y/you receive My Emails.

So, here's a tip for easy viewing of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column.  Y/you should be able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the emails are from, the subject, etc.  If Y/you click on the FROM tab, your emails should sort alphabetically.  The same goes for navigating your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject and other tabs to sort them for easy reading.  This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and aggravation.

And be certain to CHECK YOUR SPAM FOLDER every day!

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See, Play and Party with Y/you very, VERY soon!

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Stimulating Quotes

"Everything is created from moment to moment, always new. Like fireworks, this universe is a celebration and you are the spectator contemplating the eternal Fourth of July of your absolute splendor."
~  Francis Lucille

"Celebrate the happiness that friends are always giving, make every day a holiday and celebrate just living!"
~ Amanda Bradley (not easy finding info, but you can find her poems on several greeting cards!)

"Celebrate what you want to see more of."
~ Thomas J. Peters

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Enjoy!

Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
Classic Fetish™ Therapist
Glamour Domme

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