Mistress Didi*s Newsletter ~ May 25, 2007

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The Stupidity Issue: Hmmm, Spooky ~ Karmic Response Y/you Know What I Want Y/you To Know end of the stupidity part My Fetish Marathon Party June 1st ~ Update! & Fetish Marathon Events Stimulating Quote www.PartyDomme.com

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Hmmm, Spooky ~ Karmic Response
First, when Y/you recognize that you are dealing with stupid people, don't waste your time on BDSM/D-s/Fetish protocols. Y/you will gain absolutely NOTHING from it because they are too stupid to recognize that Y/you are giving them any kind of respect whatsoever. I usually believe that if you are forced to drop to their level and set them straight, immediately put your focus on better things -- like what Y/you are going to do for Y/yourself. However, some "stupids" are so bodacious that their stupidity requires a little more work to ensure that their actions don't damage them, and more importantly, have any negative effects on Y/you. For example, a particular "unfortunate" that I referred to in a previous Newsletter made a "nasty" at an event where she was overheard being her typical, tactless, ghetto-mentality self. It was not surprising to those who overheard her, but her mistake was to think she could top ME, of all Goddesses. In the past few years of tolerating her stupidity, she never caught on that I would let her "think" she had something "over" Me because she just wasn't important at all in My Domain -- and it was just a matter of time before she set herself up for Me to effortlessly stomp her down to where she belongs - so far beneath Me that she will NEVER see a spark of Light -- unless I allow her to. It wasn't until she invaded My Domain due to a mistake on someone else's part that the issue had to be handled according to MY rules. Since she thought I did something that I didn't do and chose to continue believing her ridiculous fantasies for far too long, Sadist that I am, I FINISHED the situation by allowing her to set herself up to have the exact experience she fantasized about. Now she can blabber on about her silliness with some semblance of truth. I choose that if you are going to accuse Me of something I specifically said I didn't do, insist on believing it, and then behave badly in My Domain, then you deserve to have exactly what you wanted to believe become your reality in ways worse than you could ever have imagined it in the first place. So, there it is. I FINISH things; I do not start them. Again, what's My Motto? Don't start none, won't be none. The part I don't advertise often is that if you start it, I will finish it and you. What a shame that I even have to say this and go to this place with stupid people. The scary part about this "stupid's" situation is that someone I do NOT know, but who is aware of Me, witnessed this annoying exchange. I received an email stating that she "deserved killing..." Now, that is SO NOT cool. This email commented on how I was always someone with respect and class, that this "stupid" has attempted to be disrespectful to Me on several occasions and I always rose above her - well, of course. Whether this emailer thought to act upon homicidal thoughts or not, just thinking in terms like this is such BAD KARMA. I responded by saying that W/we are fortunate enough to recognize that W/we are above her, and others like her who lack self-love and awareness, that W/we can just leave them to create their own karma -- as W/we are already watching them do. I strongly requested that this person eliminate all thoughts of any wrong-doings coming to this "stupid" and any other stupids so that all of the fabulous energy that W/we have been given by the Divine Creations can be focused on well-being for O/ourselves. I demanded that if s/he thought her/himself to be the Agent of Karma in this situation, that s/he would NOT have My permission to do anything for Me or on My behalf in any way, shape or form, nor would I appreciate any wrong-doings to any stupid who crossed My path. I DO give My permission and respectfully demand that all of that energy is put towards sending healing to the stupid and other stupids so that they can become people of value. I have not heard anything else from this person and I expect that My message has been enlightening. I want to make it VERY clear that I have no ill-will towards anyone who has offended Me. E/everyone has times of bizarre behavior and deserves forgiveness. W/we all need the time and the space to go through O/our "stuff" and (hopefully) grow. As I've said, I pity them for their lack of self-love and self-awareness and I only wish them the opportunity to see themselves in truth and develop from there. I was fortunate enough to have met the Dalai Lama face-to-face and I understood from what he told Me that karma is simultaneously past-present-and-future. To make a long and fabulous story short, for O/our purposes, Y/your karma is whether you can sleep at night. If someone offends Y/you and Y/you do not take care of yourself in the moment and it bothers you for days-weeks-years to come, that is your karma; your lesson is that you did not take care of yourself. Y/you must care for yourself first before you can care for or about others. This is how I embrace My Sadistic Nature: I can let things go that clearly do not matter to Me and I can slap (proverbially and physically) the !&%! out of those who dare to attempt to offend Me to ensure that I am not offended again and, most importantly, that I sleep peacefully at night. Ultimately, how do Y/you love and care for Y/yourself? In summary, think before you act. The consequences of your actions can not only last a moment, they can last a lifetime and, perhaps, beyond. Choose to act instead of react. (Of course, this requires thought, which seems to increasingly become a lost talent for the masses.). Yes, it's hard, but it is a discipline that is well worth the time and the effort. It determines the truth about being a Dom/me in terms of having complete control of Yourself in Your Domain; and the truth about being a submissive in terms of being able to have complete control of yourself to give yourself completely to Someone you trust. Oh, how fabulous!
Know What I Want Y/you to Know
Recently, some moron posted somewhere about the situation I referred to above and ridiculously dared to say that I and the "stupid" had "too much to drink". This "insignificant" creature, who knows NOTHING about Me, had the audacity to comment on anything about Me and My behavior. (For the record, there is little that I desire to drink at that establishment and I did not have a beverage until after the exchange - to celebrate just another one of My victories.) As I stated but will explain in different terms, the "stupid" and her cohorts fell effortlessly into the exact space I wanted them: looking the even bigger fools to the Community and believing it is their choice to stay far away from My Domain (it could not have been better if I'd actually planned it Myself! See what happens when You leave people to their own devices? they do the work for You!). In essence, "she made her bed and now she is pissing in it" (thanx to pablo for the great expression) - not My idea of a golden shower, but hey, different strokes for different folks. So, the stupidity continues with another one who thinks so highly of himself to believe that he can actually comment on what he knows NOTHING about - speculation to fulfill a stolen fantasy - I certainly received no tribute. It must be horrible to need to give commentary on events and situations to feel that you have importance in the Scene -- or anywhere. I pity this one, too. Read a self-help book to enhance your lives, people! Because I am open and personable, and I have the gift of making P/people feel comfortable around Me, does not mean that Y/you KNOW anything about Me. Knowing ME is privilege that must be earned. So, to clarify, E/everyone knows EXACTLY what I want Y/you to know. And I share it with Y/you here in My Newsletters because I am a Giving Goddess Who appreciates all that Y/you share with Me. Again, I am a Sadist, so I may tell one person one thing and another person another - just to mess with your head... As the adage is corrected: What you DON'T know CAN hurt you... So, behave.
My 2007 NYC Fetish Marathon Party!
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“Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." -Anonymous
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