Mistress Didi*’s
ClassicFetish™ Meet & Greet
Pre-Play Party Benefit! A pre-celebration for
The Mistress Didi*s
launch of BetterFetish.org
PASSWORD is "MISTRESS DIDI"
UPDATES:
NEW VENUE
Due to insipid developments beyond My control
and numerous complaints I've received (again,
I am not the Fetish Police)...
I have changed
the venue to the beautifulVELOUR Lounge
that is actually closer to Paddles (3 block walk) for those who choose to
attend the party there. Or you can choose to continue to chillax at
VELOUR! So now, My Guests have the best of both worlds! And
VELOUR has some lovely drink
specials and delicious appetizers for Us to enjoy, too!
PLEASE: Complimentary admission to VELOUR in Fetish
Attire. The PASSWORD is
"MISTRESS DIDI" to ensure complimentary admission.
Be sure to
Join My Mailing
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check PartyDomme.com
for any further updates.
It is most important to Me that My Guests are
comfortable and have a good time! That's what a event designer is
supposed to do.
Party Press
I've
received some very positive responses from a variety of online zines!
Take a look at one of My favorite interviews is in
Socially Superlative,
a wonderful "what's happening" resource!
Fetish Ambassadors
I
truly love My friends and the divine HydroMadam
is one of those rare Goddesses who is a sweet & friendly, incredibly skilled
& talented, Sadistic Fetishists! She is one of My
favorite People To Play With!
Those of you who do not know Latex Ed,
should! He is the quintessential gentleman! Latex Ed has hand-made some of the lovely TOYS that are raffle
prizes! It's always the quiet ones...
Some of you know her as SwitchOphelia on
Twitter, she is one of the most hardcore masochists in the USA who enjoys
Gothic fashion, corsetry-tight-lacing, and has piercings! Just a
note, Ophelia and her fiancé are under My Protection, so you have to ask Me
first...
Mr. Rugman will be Our gracious carpet for
the evening so make sure you show your appreciation and
trample him a bit!
And, We are blessed again this year with
BodyGuard Dave at the door!
The
Mistress Didi*s 2010 NYC Fetish Marathon Meet & Greet
is a delightful opportunity to meet people you’d like to know & Play with at
an after-party at the new and improved
Paddles
(NYC's only fully-furnished, dungeon club), at other parties, and beyond!
The focus is on
communication & intellectual stimulation to accommodate the thrill of
celebrating your Fetish Lifestyle while connecting with like minds! Indulge
in a beautiful, PRIVATE, intimate setting that is walking distance to the
After-Party venue! Mingle and mix with
The Mistress Didi*s
usual, delectable mix of Fetish Luminaries and enjoy chillax-groove music at
a comfortable level for conversation. “Fetish
Ambassadors” will introduce
guests to each other ~ no one will be left out of the fun!
Admission is
FREEwith the purchase of at least 1 raffle ticket
($2 each, 3 for $5) for The Mistress Didi*s
Annual Fetish Marathon
Charity Donation.
Raffle donations are contributed from the crème-de-la-crème of the NYC
Fetish Scene and across the USA to enhance the sense of Community! The
first 20 attendees will receive a special party favor that you can Play with
at the party at Paddleswhere
The Mistress Didi*s
Guests receive a special discount on admission!
Dress Code:
High Fetish; Fiercely Fashionable!
Novices welcome to Our
safe, sane & consensual environment.
Visit
www.PartyDomme.com
for more details. This year,
The Mistress Didi*
has arranged for Her party to be held in a beautiful, private, lounge ~
VELOUR
(that is a 3 block walk to Paddles) and Her Guests are welcome to continue
to chillax after the Meet & Greet is officially over.
I learned a long time ago never to ask questions that you don't want answers
to - in particular, the question: "How stupid are they?" because it is
inevitable that they will show you just how stupid they are.
I also learned that people want to believe
that they are infinitely smarter than you are and that if you allow them to
get away with bad behavior once, they will believe that they can get away
with it again... and again... and again.
WARNING: If I allow
you to get away with something nefarious, be assured that I am exercising My
choice to deem you insignificant until you prove to be
fun to destroy.
As written on My Website:
My Motto:
Don't start none,
won't be none.
In the past, unscrupulous people had the
audacity to attempt to make Me wrong for telling the truth about their bad
behaviors. Honestly, I don't think they were as angry that I told the
truth as they were that everyone knew I was telling the truth about them.
These silly creatures thought that they had strength in numbers with a horde
of like-minded barbarians. What lower life-forms do not understand is
that I do not care whether they like Me; their unscrupulous behavior ruined
any chances for them to benefit from the Beauty & Privilege of My friendship
and consideration. And I feel the same about their "friends."
These social networks have misguided
people in the understanding of the concept of friendship. "Friend" is
not a verb; the verb is to "befriend" - let's take a look at that word:
BEfriend.
This outright tells Us that you must first BE the type of person you would
like to have as a friend.
So, if you try to sabotage My events,
attempt to steal from Me - or worse, steal from My charity works in an
attempt to be petty, why would I care about you or what you think or say
about Me? I thank you for showing Me exactly how unworthy you are of
the oxygen you breathe. The same goes for those who rally around your
protestations against Me.
I walk My talk when I say,
"If you're not
a part of the solution, you're a part of the problem."
What everyone needs to know is that I will do whatever it takes to protect
My Domain, which includes My friends, family, cool acquaintances, and
everyone who trusts Me and My counsel.
I'll take out a
full-page ad in The New York Times and post info on a billboard in Times
Square if I deem it necessary to care for those I care about.
I am disgusted by the practice of "don't tell" which allows these barbarians
to run amuck and ruin Our Scene with pathetic pettiness.
The truth is that the people who truly
matter already know what kind of person I really am - and what kind of
people the badly-behaved, barbarians are. Most importantly, the truth
is always in the mirror looking back at Us all. The question We have
to face every day of Our lives is do you like what you see?
Since I have been unable to get out, I've decided to allow you to come in!
I am going to conduct private, semi-private, and group
ClassicFetish™ Workshops
via webcam!
Here's the very
special news: I am in the process of testing various web conferencing
programs. While I am doing this, I will conduct a few Workshops for a
small, $10
donation to one of
My Charities!
This is your opportunity to be charitable while gaining valuable knowledge!
Space will be extremely limited, so if you would like to take part during My
test drives, click here and follow instructions.
Participation will be on a first-come, first-served basis.
In the meantime, (1) read about
My Webcam Workshops
and (2) enjoy a taste of
Domina 101 Wisdom
below!
Offer more people My
valuable knowledge in difficult financial times;
Offer those who are
truly submissive and/or just beginning to explore their submissive
expressions an invaluable resource;
Offer Dominants a quick and easy resource to contribute to the
restoration of the Beauty of The Fetish Community;
Give The Fetish Community a powerful resource to improve conditions
resulting from the negativity that plagues Us from the mainstream
media and other exploiters; and
Raise more funds for My charities.
How To
Properly Present yourself To A Mistress
is an effort to improve opportunities for submissives to meet Dominants
and make a good impression. It is also an excellent resource for
Dominants to assist prospective submissives and those We meet on the
roads in Our Fetish Journeys.
Cool stuff to bring joy
and help spread the cheer!
Thanks
to Mistress Rage,
I have been up to the wee hours of the morning looking at the magnificent
photos and artwork
on this website. There are new image galleries added every day.
Enjoy!
For a few divertive moments, check out the
Tone
Matrix, a laboratory experiment in sound-play on the internet.
(Thanks to Mistress Rage for this site, too!)
You can make your life
easier by subscribing to My Newsletter and updates by email or RSS feed.
This way, you can be certain to be the first to receive the news!
I REALLY dislike SPAM, but
worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people
did not follow the easy instructions to
make sure
that Y/you receive My Emails.
So, here's a tip for easy viewing
of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column. Y/you should be
able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the
emails are from, the subject, etc. If Y/you click on the FROM tab,
your emails should sort alphabetically. The same goes for navigating
your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject, and other tabs to sort them
for easy reading. This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and
aggravation.
And be certain to CHECK YOUR
SPAM FOLDER every day!
2 bottles of Champagne Veuve Cliquot Ponsardin or Yellow Label
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are:
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2)
Aware of your local laws regarding an adult domain.
3) Not
offended by adult material in text or graphic format in regard to nudity,
Dominance & Submission, Fetishism, Sadomasochism and/or Bondage &
Discipline by consenting adults over the age of 21 years.
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information. However, I am not alone in feeling that this regulation is
overbroad, unwarranted and unconstitutionally intrusive. I strongly
recommend all concerned persons join the fight to protect our liberties
and our privacy by contacting and supporting the National Coalition for
Sexual Freedom, an organization in which I and My Associates
are proud to be active participants. www.NCSFreedom.org
Mistress Didi* Blackthorn
7105 Third Avenue, Suite 333, Brooklyn, NY 11209