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So, to announce the new fun ~ which is already in full swing ~ I have created this Quickie Newsletter to bring you the announcement of the return of My Grand Audience Interviews With The Dominants Events and My Domina Foot Massage Workshop!   DO NOT WAIT UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE RSVP - see below.

The last month has brought quite a few newcomers to My Mailing List, so I have decided to repeat the info that was in My last issue because it's good stuff and those who have already seen it will benefit from taking another look!

And, of course, new quotes have been added!  Enjoy!

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I have decided to invite the public into My Private Salon (a.k.a. living room) for a chance for REAL Lifestyle introductions.  A Grand Audience Private Soiree is a special, intimate opportunity where serious submissives (female and male) may have the chance to spend a few quality minutes with serious Dom/mes of New York City's Fetish Elite to present themselves for consideration for service.  

Soirees are arranged with all Female Dominants and with a Mixed Group of Dominants ~ see the schedule on My Website.

My Website also explains in more detail that there will be 6 Dominants and 6 submissives for introductions, presentations for service, dinner, and dessert!  

Now, this is VERY IMPORTANT:  Since each Grand Audience Soiree is a matched grouping, serious inquiries and commitments ONLY. 

submissives are required to make an online deposit, but special opportunities to make your deposit to Me in person may be arranged while you buy a round of drinks for the Dom/me who will be keeping Me company.   I will pick a day and time and anyone who has "online deposit phobias" must meet Me then or be out of luck.

Granted, I understand the fears that people can have over identity theft, being "outted", and other things that can disrupt and destroy lives.  So, I will now put your fears at ease.

1) I am the victim of identity theft and have been battling it for over 10 years. It is one of the most horrible things that can happen to you. I would not wish it on My worst enemy - and I don't have enemies. I have evolved beyond such banal states of being and don't entertain the stupid behaviors of those who do not have enough love for themselves to have the need to try to make an enemy of Me.

2) Don't take this the wrong way, but I really don't CARE who you "are" beyond how you serve Me and/or My Friends.  Most of the time that takes the fun out of the fantasy!  FYI, quite a few of My Fetish friends are VERY high profile people and you don't -- and won't -- know who they are unless they want you to and tell you themselves. I will treat you with the same respect.

3) I have a motto: Don't start none, won't be none.  The only people who should have reason to be concerned about being "outted" are people with nefarious intentions to begin with. 

NOTE: I am fiercely protective of Mine - which includes those people who grace My Domain with their honesty, integrity, and the sharing of their bests. So, if anyone in any way threatens to disrupt the safety of any of those who trust Me, I will always prevent the offender from getting away with it and attempting to harm others again in the future.

People TRUST ME and I will do everything in My power to maintain their trust.  So, if you are cool, I'm cool, and everyone in My Domain is cool.

4) The deposit goes into one of My personal accounts to buy dinner for the event. So, I don't want any "drama" (that's not on Broadway) either.

The deposit also cuts out the substandards from trying to troll at My Grand Audience Private Soirees.  REAL submissives and REAL Dominants ONLY. 

If people had proper manners, there would be no need for deposits and I would be able to take you on your word that you would arrive at the event. However, as W/we all know, so many people make appointments and don't even give the courtesy of a phone call to cancel.  So, blame the creepazoids (see definition #2) for any inconvenience.

This should allay any fears of making an online deposit for any of My Events.

My Salon is located in Midtown Manhattan and Soirees occur on select Tuesday evenings from 6-10pm.  See My Website for details.

As usual, I have the well-being of My G/guests in mind and have made it simple for submissives to secure a place at Soirees and I have even given tips on how to present oneself to a Dominant in My How To Approach A Mistress article.

So, PAY CLOSE ATTENTION AND FOLLOW INSTRUCTIONS to attend a Grand Audience Private Soiree!

Wednesday, July 30th, 2008

My Domina Foot Massage Workshop Soiree™ is where foot lovers learn the art of proper foot massage, taught by a Licensed Massage Therapist and Reflexologist, and have the wonderful opportunity to practice on some of The Beautiful, Glorious Dominas of the New York City Area's Fetish Elite Who will graciously offer Their feet for you to learn and love! 

The purpose of this workshop is to combat the annoyance of submissives slobbering on Our toes without even being able to please Us!   After the lesson, dessert is served with fantastic foot worship! 

Like My Grand Audience Private Soirees™, participants are limited to 6 Dominas and 6 foot lovers, so RSVPs will be on a first-come-first-to-serve-Us basis.  Be certain to CAREFULLY follow instructions to RSVP.

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Several events have occurred over the past few weeks that have prompted Me to make a new commitment to Living Joyously:

1.  My Epiphany of 2021 ~ What If?;

2.  I won (another) prestigious award in My vanilla life for techniques that I have developed and am not thrilled about it at all due to the organization's prejudice against how I use My Work in the Fetish Arts (see My upcoming blog); and

3.   I have embarked on My life of Responsibly Living for Pleasure, also known as My New Religion, "Spiritual Hedonism" (hey, L. Ron Hubbard did it, so have I!).  In the past few weeks, there have been quite a few people who have not appreciated My Gracious Goddessness and because I do believe in the Greater Good, I have ~ as always ~ taken the High Road when dealing with them -- but I was NOT enjoying it!   It is very hard to take the High Road with people with low-life behavior.  It's even hard to take the High Road when people don't mean to be offensive, but invade Your space anyway.   Resisting the temptation to slap down the twits completely takes away from My enjoyment of being a Sadist!

So, what did I do?  I found a new experience of pleasure through My choice to be Responsible to the Greater Good.  This is not easy, but totally worth it.  We can grow through joy as well as through pain and We all know that there is such a deliciously, fine line between the two!   My experience of the Greater Good is the recognition of the beauty of life expressed in all its glorious ways to allow Us to evolve into being the best that We can be.

So, this is My gift to you today: choose Joy and be responsible to the source of your joy and the Greater Good.  Every time We are confronted with something that appears to block Our joy, it is a gift from The Universe and from your Highest Self for you to actually connect with your power and see how powerful you are.   With power comes responsibility to be an asset to the Whole of Life because everything you do affects others in some way.  So, start from a place of contributing to the Greater Good and you will see that riding the waves of Joy is just a matter of practice and strengthening your skills (like learning to surf!).

One sure way to strengthen your tools for choosing to Live Joyously is to focus on all that you have.  All spiritual and religious teachings tell you in one way or another to "count your blessings" and blessings are something that all of Us who have the ability to read this right now have so many more of than the vast majority of the people on this planet.  So, instead of whining about how you need a new car, or you're fat, or you don't have enough money to take another vacation, remember that you have so much to be thankful for.  For example, you have:

• food to eat when there are people starving to death - literally;
• a home with running water, electricity, the internet, a computer, etc. - hey, you have a home when there are thousands of homeless people right in your country, even in your city (see link below);
• you have clothes, Fetish attire and otherwise, when the majority of people in the world don't even have shoes;
• you woke up this morning able to see the beauty that surrounds you, if you care to take the time to look...

Start your day by listing 10 things to be thankful for.  You will be amazed at how in no time at all, things get better, including your ability to deal with stress and distress.  And this will boost you on your way to Living Joyously!

One point of interest of Spiritual Hedonism that revolves around Responsibility is My concept and practice of Responsible Sadism.  I am writing about these things further in My New Blog, and I will let you know when I've published it. 

In the meantime, take a moment to think of 10 things you have to be thankful for right NOW and strengthen your ability to Live Joyously!

For a "freeview" of the type of detailed techniques that are standard at The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, you can view the complimentary  How To Walk In High Heels demo video of samples from My GoddessGlide™ Workshop!

More about the video:  My GoddessGlide™ techniques work equally well when walking in flats as they do when walking in high heels.  And, most importantly, they are for everyone ~ females and males alike.  I developed My GoddessGlide™ techniques to alleviate stress on your leg joints, hips, spine, neck and to help your body rebalance from the effects of walking on concrete in these big cities so many of Us live in.

The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory is now OPEN with 2 locations (Midtown Manhattan & Jersey City) and incredible Grand Opening tuition specials!  There are no better tuition opportunities anywhere.  Check the website for tuition information.

NEW!  Easy Wig Care Tips!   Click on Complimentary!

Enter The Contest!

Win a scholarship!  Win a work-study internship!  A new winner is chosen each month during My Grand Opening!  Enter as many times as you'd like!   Check it out!

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* Classic Fetish™ Resources

~ The Mistress Didi*s Articles including How To Approach A Mistress, Domme vs. dumme, submissive vs. substandard, and NEW ~ The cybertrog!  NEW: Easy Wig Care Tips!

~ Human Bird Cage for sale!  It's gorgeous and well-made.  I have had quite a bit of fun locking subbies in there!   Too bad I have a small NYC apartment (that has the nerve to have two bedrooms and I still don't have room for My shoes) or I would snatch it up!  Click Here to Contact The Owner with offers and inquiries.   Mind your manners.

~ Make Cell Phone Companies Accountable.  I have taken the time to compile a detailed list on how to deal with cell phone company complaints.  Now, of course, the process is set up to annoy you, consume too much time and energy, and basically get you running around in circles.  However, if enough people follow the proper procedures - especially through government and legal channels -  cell phone companies will have to be accountable for all their heinous crimes.  I have compiled the information HERE where you can bookmark it and refer to it EVERY TIME YOU NEED TO.  Once enough people make a fuss, elected officials will get the bright idea that yes, We, The People need a bill(s) sponsored in Congress to regulate the thievery!   I have made it easy for you.  Now, DO YOUR PART to see that We, The People, are treated with respect for the money We pay these companies for what should be a basic service at affordable prices for everyone.  AND, Goddess that I am, I have included a link to amazing resources for you and your cell phone.  CLICK HERE

~ Rawhide Cane Sale ~ TabooLeather.com sells rawhide canes at an incredible price!  How's $17.95 for you?  Visit TabooLeather.com and search (upper left corner) for "rawhide".  The cane that I use in My My How To Use A Rawhide Cane Video tidbit was a tribute that cost $40, 3 years ago!  So, take the opportunity to receive a great bargain!

PARTY NEWS!

From The Press Release:

~ ~ SUSPENSION, a private play party.  "Let's hang".  Sunday July 27, 2008

The creators of the AVN After Party, Las Vegas, Mike B and Kelley Dane announce, a Powder coated production…  A night of a thousand kisses, a night of a thousand lashes, when reality falls away and you take flight.  Weightless above the earth, you are the breath that stills between intakes of air, the time that exists outside of time, the complete absence of preconception.  Reason halted, mystery divined, a celebration of sensation, altered, clarified. Welcomed, you drift high, surrounded by creatures, playing, spinning, dancing, beautiful creatures just like you – suspended.  Tonight's Parlor Games: Blind Man's Bluff, Know thy mate, Red, Green (No, You're Not Safe), Kelley Dane's Bondage Challenge.

This is a private anything goes play party devoid of judgment and preconceived notions. Full suspension, rope and play equipment for general use.  Full bar and hookah service.  21 and over.   Fixed Drink Prices: Vodka mixes (cranberry OJ etc.) $5, Rum mixes (coke etc.) $5, Domestic beers (Bud etc.) $5, Imported Beer $6, Water $4 (Tap available at discretion of bar keep - translation - support the bar), Grey goose and other top shelf expect to pay more.  All proceeds go to support the party.

Doors open 10:30pm, Habibi Hookah Lounge, 198 Ave A between 12th and 13th Street Manhattan,
(212) 982-0932

Contact: suspensionnyc@gmail.com with inquires.

See Y/you at the Party!  And don't be shy; come on over and say hello!  Just be sure to mind your manners....

JOIN TES TODAY!

Fun Stuff!

~ Something Fabulous!  Judy Chicago's "The Dinner Party" Exhibit at The Brooklyn Museum.   Take the virtual tour of an absolutely, phenomenal work by artist Judy Chicago, which is housed at The Brooklyn Museum in New York City.  If you are lucky enough to see it in person, do so!  You won't regret it.  Plus, The Brooklyn Museum has one of (if not "the") largest collections of Egyptian artifacts in the world!

Good Works!

~ Homeless Gear.  The mission of Homeless Gear is a simple one. Collect unwanted outdoor gear (packs, sleeping bags, etc) and re-distribute these items to the homeless. Homeless Gear intends to find a home for all unwanted outdoor gear and make the outdoors a little more like home for those without permanent shelter.  A segment of the homeless community can not gain entrance into overnight shelters because they have issues with drug or alcohol use. Even if they do find overnight shelter they have to spend the majority of their day outside in the elements. Imagine what a sleeping bag would do for someone forced to sleep or spend the day in their car or under a bridge.

~ FreeRice is a great way to contribute to the world hunger problem while enhancing your vocabulary.  So, it is not only good for you, it is great for your kids.  For each word that you correctly know the meaning of, several grains of rice are placed in a virtual bowl.  When the bowl is full, you continue to create another bowl.  The bowls of rice you create are donated to starving nations.  The site keeps track of your best score and stays challenging with a wide variety of words.  So, feed the hungry every day with FreeRice.  I contribute at least 1000 grains every day.  Go for it!

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I REALLY dislike SPAM, but worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people did not follow the easy instructions to make sure that Y/you receive My Emails.

So, here's a tip for easy viewing of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column.  Y/you should be able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the emails are from, the subject, etc.  If Y/you click on the FROM tab, your emails should sort alphabetically.  The same goes for navigating your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject and other tabs to sort them for easy reading.  This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and aggravation.

And be certain to CHECK YOUR SPAM FOLDER every day!

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See, Play, and Party with Y/you very, VERY soon!

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Stimulating Quotes

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters
compared to what lies within us."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

"What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

"The noblest pleasure is the joy of understanding."
~ Leonardo da Vinci (VERY cool website!)

"The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do."
Walter Bagehot

"Do you know that within your power lies every step you ever dreamed of stepping, and within your power lies every joy you ever dreamed of seeing? Within yourself lies everything you ever dreamed of being. Become everything that God wants you to be. It is within your reach. Dare to grow into your dreams and claim this as your motto: Let it be me."
~ Mary Kay Ash

"Happiness is neither virtue nor pleasure, not this thing nor that, but simply growth."
~  W. B. Yeats

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Enjoy!

Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
Classic Fetish™ Therapist
Glamour Domme

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