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July 30, 2007

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In This Issue:

Still in Internet Hell

My "SCANDALOUS" Classic Fetish™ Party
August 18th ~
celebrating submissiveOphelia's Birthday!

police Stupidity & Waste of O/our Taxes

Interesting Tidbits
Including CrossDressers USA

Next PleasurePain™ Workshop

The Sensual Sheet

Stimulating Quote

www.PartyDomme.com


Still in Internet Hell


OK, I have NO idea why the lack of internet situation is STILL going on in My building.  I don't care that the cable company is giving Me free service for a few months (big deal) and I have cancelled My DSL because, well, it has always stunk.  I am offended that in order to have internet service via aircard that I must (1) purchase the aircard, (2) sign a 2-year contract (if I sign with Verizon, a 1 year contract will cost $50 extra - the bastards), (3) pay an early termination fee of $150 should I move out of the service area, and (4) pay more than a bit for monthly service.   However, as soon as I finish with being annoyed, I will figure out which is My best bet for internet service and get back on track with answering emails, etc.  I hope that My state of protest dissipates soon, but I have learned not to rush into things when I am perturbed about them.  Rushing - especially while angry - always makes for poor choices.  So, there will be delays in responses - especially while jenny (My Party sub) is late into her 3rd trimester - waiting for that baby to come!

 

My "SCANDALOUS"
Classic Fetish™ Party!


Ah, yes!  Time to be scandalous and nicely naughty!  I just decided which scandalous outfit to (almost) wear!

I am combining a Classic Fetish™ Fête with the birthday of My beloved submissiveOphelia!   This is a special birthday for her, so let's party and give her some lovely birthday spanks!

Mistress Clarissa will give a performance...  She has not divulged any information yet, but I do love a nice surprise!   It's always a pleasure to enjoy Her talent and beauty!

I will again have the Sensual Sheet (see below) spread out for Y/you to try and delight Y/your flesh!

Hopefully, I will have the redesigned prototypes for some of My Convertible BDSM Equipment available for U/us to Play on!   I am such a perfectionist that even with a prototype, I want to make sure that I begin with excellence, keep this as My standard, and continue to shine from there!  

 

police Stupidity
& Waste of O/our Taxes


Recently, I was not only stalked, but harassed and wrongly given tickets for an "open bottle of alcohol in public" and for having My dog off the leash in the park.  First, the bottle of alcohol was a Grolsh beer that had an UNBROKEN seal on it (of course, these plebian cops had never seen a Grolsh before).  I bought the beer to make My fabulous tomato sauce (
just gave a recipe secret away) at a store that is not close to My apartment, so I purchased it on the dog walk and was on My way home.  Second, I was in the park after 9pm when it is legal to have a dog off-leash.  I got the ticket for the dog off-leash when I asked the stupid, little-dick-syndrome rookie for his badge number, which is My legal right.  On top of all of these LIES and offenses by this crookie-rookie, 12 COPS CAME OVER TO "assist" ~ gee, is this why Y/you can never find a cop when Y/you need one?  The "assisters" looked at this idiot with disgust and several even pet My wonderful dog.  The creep and his partner then proceeded to give My friend ~ a Black man (the main target of police offenses) ~ 2 tickets - one for "littering" because he had a lit cigarette and they wanted to know where he was going to put it, and one for an "open bottle of alcohol in public", which was the same, SEALED bottle that I received a ticket for.  The creepazoid that gave Me tickets told Me that he would be happy if I contested them because then he would have a "tour on day shift" and that he would not have to work a night shift.  I want a refund for this waste of tax dollars and oxygen.

 
If something stupid like this ever happens to Y/you, contact The Civilian Complaint Review Board, which is why I wanted the creepazoid's badge number.  These complaints remain in the cop's permanent record and if a cop has enough of them, his or her career is scrutinized and advancements (which these cops don't deserve anyway) may be delayed until they show better behavior in their futures.  Also, support CopWatch (videotaping bad behavior by "the badge") in every way that Y/you can.


This kind of behavior is the reason people HATE cops and they are called pigs (
which is an offense to the animal).  More importantly, this is the reason decent cops (wherever they are) get shot and killed -- some morons with badges (and even worse, guns) ruin the opportunity for any respect or caring for police by harassing  innocent people in neighborhoods like Mine that are predominantly inhabited by People of Color and where the gentrification process is running rampant.

Amazingly, the very next day I got a phone call from some organization -- now, My phone number is on the "do-not-call-list" -- wanting money, of course, and stating that since the beginning of the year, 5 police officers have already been killed.  I was outraged that I was being annoyed at home and disgusted on every level by the injustice I'd experienced the prior evening.  My response was, "And I have absolutely NO sympathy at this time" before I slammed the phone onto the receiver.

What bothers Me is that this is how I feel.  I was never this Person (and I don't like that I have been pushed to this point too many times in My lifetime); I've always had sympathy for police officers because even though the corruption of the badge is deplorable, they have very difficult jobs that show the true ugliness of people.  I have always felt sorry for the families of cops who have to pray every day that their loved ones come home unharmed and alive.  I won't even date a cop or a fireperson for that very reason -- especially after losing more than a few friends on 9/11.  

However, this increasing and constant harassment by droves of rookies terrorizing My and other gentrifying neighborhoods is stripping all consideration for cops in the areas that they need it the most.  Why isn't anyone at the police academy teaching these clueless creatures that respect must be earned and that it is not a "given" -- especially in neighborhoods where cops are seen as "the enemy"?  They could certainly benefit from My Motto: don't start none, won't be none.

Which brings Me to the event on August 3, 2007 called MOVE, a town hall meeting to stop police brutality ~ www.imagenation.us ~ dedicated to Sean Bell (This is a NY Times article which is surprisingly neutral).   I'm thrilled that the sponsors are businesses and organizations that are not specifically "Black", but are interested in justice.  Just so those who don't know are aware, the event is held in St. Nicholas Park, which these days, is a neighborhood that is quite gentrified -- that means there are a lot of White people living there and a lot of police protecting them.   So, don't be afraid to come out and learn.

The only good thing from My experience is that My friends of all different races are offended on levels that they can't even understand.  They hear about these things, but have never experienced them and My recent offense has been their rude awakening.  Most people who are not Of Color despise Al Sharpton for always bringing this subject to light and My friends are freaked out that they can now relate to the FACT that Al is telling the truth.  Well, keep shining that light, Al.

 

Interesting Tidbits


~ Women seeking to flee an abuser are already frightened for their lives and the lives of their children; they need to know that their pets will be safe as well.  Thankfully, Senator Kuehl understands how important the human–animal bond is.  The legislation She authored would include pets in domestic violence protection orders, and is an important step in preventing abusers from using pets to threaten their victims.  If passed, California will join the states of Maine, Vermont and New York in leading the charge  against domestic violence.  Let Senator Kuehl know Y/you appreciate Her efforts to protect victims of domestic violence and the animals they love – sign the petition to say thank you! Sign here: http://go.care2.com/e/R7Lo/GhJ0/SYdk

~ This is a really GREAT idea, though it makes O/one laugh at first!  Pmates give women the freedom to discreetly pee standing up!  Have Y/you ever found yourself in a dirty, unhygienic port-a-potty? Have Y/you ever had a full bladder with no bathroom in sight?  Have Y/you ever been afraid to pull down Y/your pants to squat and pee and risk being seen or peeing on your shoes? Then the P-Mate is for you!  P-Mate was invented by a creative Dutch woman. They allow girls and Women of all ages the ability to neatly pee standing up.  The P-Mate is basically like a cardboard shoe with the toe cut off. Y/you place the entrance of the 'shoe' directly under Y/your urethra, between Y/your legs, pee into the shoe and then make sure that the hole at the toe end is funneling the urine out somewhere other than on Y/your feet.  Y/you've got to see the photos on the website!   And no, it's not penis envy (as one intimidated idiot said to Me); it's pee freedom.

~ Here's a great resource for crossdressers, etc.:  CrossDressers USA offers custom-made things for CDs.  The website is truly well-designed and there is a LOT of great stuff available.  I am truly impressed!  I look forward to doing a Workshop where CDs will have the opportunity to check out in person some of the wonderful "wares and wears" available.  Let Me know Y/your thoughts on this...

 

My Next PleasurePain™ Workshops


My Workshops and SWIRL™ on Tuesdays beginning at 6PM

 

My Domina Foot Massage Workshop is scheduled for Tuesday, August 7th, but if the response does not become greater by Sunday, August 5th, I WILL CANCEL it because I no longer desire to spend money like water on My Offerings while people do not appreciate My generosity and contributions to The Scene.  It is quite expensive to rent such a beautiful space and I am not made of money.  If I were, I would buy Myself more shoes and I will choose to economically put My resources into My big parties.


My Domina Foot Massage Workshop Party is where foot lovers will learn the art of proper foot massage and practice on some of The Glorious Dominas Who will participate to combat the annoyance of slobbering on Our toes without even being able to give a decent foot rub!  So, RSVP ASAP ~ NO LATER THAN SUNDAY, AUGUST 5th for this wonderful event on Tuesday, August 7th!   Dominas Who are interested may contact Me now .   All others RSVP on My Website IMPORTANT:  This is an event where I must have an equal number of Dominas and "footsies", so RSVP as quickly as possible so that I can be sure to make matches!

After the Workshop, SWIRL™, a REAL social gathering of Lifestyle Fetishists.  The idea is to be able to come to a Fetish gathering straight from work, wear your vanilla clothes with a bit of Fetish accoutrement, have good conversation with good people, enjoy nice wine, snacks and Play, and still get enough rest to work the next day!  Don't forget to bring a toy or two!  Admission ONLY by RSVP

Presented in a fun, easy, enjoyable way, My PleasurePain™ Workshops are a glimpse into My creative genius and designed for maximum safety and precision in the application of the techniques I have developed and expanded upon.  My Workshops can be fully enjoyed by the novice and the expert and each one touches on basic anatomy; proper preparation, form, function, and expression of technique; the determination and safety of the use of tools, toys and gadgets; sensory enhancement and the prolongation of Play.

 

Click HERE for a full list of The PleasurePain™ Workshop Descriptions .
August 7 Domina Foot Massage Workshop Party
September 7 MaxWax™ Workshop with DomSub Friends

 

Also in the works - last chance:  I desire INPUT (what dates, times work for you?) for My Sissy Maid Finishing Workshop™ on a Monday or Tuesday evening.  I will teach some of THE most important things a sissy maid should know including proper serving skills, walking, and standing-in-waiting to combat the appalling lack of training I've encountered with too many sissy maids.  Those who participate will be allowed to serve at My Parties.   With training, you, too can be as lovely as Tiffany-Jean and Maid Rosie who have beautifully served at My Events!

 

The Sensual Sheet


The photo above is from the introduction of  The Sensual Sheet at My SPARKLER Party!  My voyeuristic stimulation was enhanced as I watched P/people rub their flesh on The Sensual Sheet and allow T/themselves to enjoy the arousals it is designed to give!  One of the things I love so much about this glorious product is that it is machine washable and easy to care for (Y/you should know by now how I feel about cleanliness and sanitary conditions!), so I went home and popped it right into My washing machine!   Go to the website and take a look at the beautiful colors and designs.  For those W/who missed this wonderful opportunity to have Y/your flesh caressed by such sensations, I will have a full sheet for you to rub Y/your body on and color swatches at My Next Party, SCANDALOUS on August 18th The wonderful Miss Shonagh, designer and proprietress, will offer My A/associates a 10% discount on Y/your orders, so click here to check it out and place Y/your order:  www.sensual-being.com 

 

 
Paying Attention to RSVP

Read the info that I carefully put on My Website on the Etiquette Page to ensure a seamless flow to RSVPing and receiving Event details.   My policy is:

  1 - Do NOT contact Me to RSVP - that's why Y/you are directed to My Website to RSVP in ALL correspondence about My Events;

  2 - Read ThePartyDomme Yahoo Auto-Response for info.  This is why Y/you need to check Y/your spam folders and follow the instructions on how to fix Y/your email account to receive My emails.  I have even been so generous as to investigate instructions on how Y/you can ensure that Y/you receive My emails for several email systems.   So, be certain to follow the instructions to receive emails from all of My accounts; and

  3 - For those who still can't get it together and wait until the last minute to RSVP, My Website is updated on the day of the Event so that Y/you still have the ability to receive the info Y/you need.


See, Play and Party with Y/you
very soon!

 

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Never underestimate the predictability of stupidity.

~ Bullet Tooth Tony in "Snatch"


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Enjoy!

Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
Classic Fetish™ Therapist
Glamour Domme
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