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I read an astrological explanation that said that this week We should let it be known how We would like to have more enjoyments in Our lives.  I realize that sharing part of Myself in this way requires bravery and the knowledge that (1) I am secure enough in Myself to choose to believe that I am opening Myself up to possibilities instead of fearing that I am vulnerable to harm; (2) I'm a REAL Domme, so I am in control of who shows up and is allowed to stay in My Domain and how; (3) I am giving more people permission to communicate with Me (yes, I am aware - and have been told - that I scare people... little, ol' Me?  LOL!); and (4) I am inspiring others to go for what they want and not be afraid to "put it out there". 

So, here it goes:

   I am considering getting married again... (I know, I should have warned you to sit down first before I sprang that one!)   However this time, I will choose someone who is not only on My intellectual level, but who loves her/himself enough that there is no need to be jealous of Me or anyone else.  I desire ~ and deserve ~ someone who compliments all of My qualities and who has the same passion for living (or more) that I have.  S/he must be generous, a philanthropist, animal lover and, if not completely in The Lifestyle, able to live in it with Me as Who I Am.  (Yes, this bliss does exist!  I have 2 very good friends whose partners are not in The Scene but who come out and party with Us regularly!) 

My ideal love is either a Top Who subs only to Me; a Co-Top who is in synch with My Domain; or a submissive who has a strong personality to keep the outside world in its proper place not to annoy Me.  Now, since I have such a huge ability to appreciate a wide variety of people and situations, I'm up for some adventures!   So, don't be afraid, those who will consider getting to know Me!  Approach Me properly, do a little research, and We will definitely have fun, no matter what the future holds! 

P.S.: I'm not "on the clock"; I do not want children (If you've already got them, leave them at home.)  And that I've shared this with the world does not mean that I want to marry any time soon...  I really enjoy being single.  And I may change My mind.  Being a Libra, I enjoy entertaining romantic notions.  Libra is the partnership sign, after all.  I don't have to marry you to enjoy your company ~ and remember that you don't have to want to marry Me when you keep My company...

   I desire more activity companions.  I am fortunate enough to enjoy so many things from sports (loving the Olympics!) to Jazz to Opera to foreign films to theater to museums, lectures and taking classes to fine dining and entertaining (did you know that I am a culinary school graduate?) and so much more.  What's sad is that I have few friends who have the time and resources to enjoy these things with Me - especially Opera and sports.   And when I say I love sports, I enjoy all the "regulars" (football, basketball, hockey, boxing, track & field...) and the more exotic like jai alai, rhythmic and regular gymnastics, figure skating, equestrian, and so many more!  I think it goes without saying that I am a great lover of dance.  So, if you can handle someone who believes that one should dress for the theater and who gets loud at a hockey game, let's go and have some fun!  (Now, I am REALLY busy and barely have time to get a pedicure, so this is positive-into-the-near-future-thinking!  But I will make it happen.) 

    I want REAL submissives.   I have a scale for My acceptance of a sub which is dependent upon the types of service I desire.  My motto is "From each according to her/his ability, to each according to My desires."  (That's a little play on Marx & Engels).  Some people are great as corporal amusements while others are great at caretaking.  I do not require that you be able to do everything; just be good at what you are able to do and have something of value to offer Me.   Recently, I held back My annoyance when a lovely, young woman said that she did not think I would consider her for service because she was overweight.  In reality, this woman is nice and round and juicily thick - gorgeous!  (It is disgusting that the fashion industry - which is over-run by gay males who want the models to look like adolescent boys - makes REAL women feel unwomanly with the repulsive stick figures who go out and buy body-parts as soon as they make names for themselves.)  Get this straight: all women are beautiful; appreciate your beauty and work it!  (It is unfortunately true that far too many women make themselves ugly.  Let's wish them the ability to love and care for themselves.)  I will be the judge of whether I want you.  submissives should also understand that substandards will not be tolerated.   Read My Requirements to Serve Me. 

At this moment in time, I would be particularly thrilled by hardcore masochists and those who like to push their thresholds of pain-to-pleasure.  This summer has been a bit slow in terms of My private parties and I'd like to rectify that situation as quickly as possible.

Speaking of fun, here is a photo of one of the Goddesses I consider a Friend with Her wonderful slave who built Her rickshaw (actually, he has built more than one for Her).   Now, that's the kind of fun I'm talking about!

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The purpose of this section of My Newsletter is to stimulate what's best inside of people and encourage you all to let it out and share it with The Whole. 

At last!  The Spiritual Hedonism Blog is ready!  You can subscribe in a reader or by email (see above) or go to the blog and catch up on My Musings.

In My next Newsletter will be My latest reflection regarding the path of Spiritual Hedonism, Responsibly Living for Pleasure.  I was inspired to write this because in one day, 7 wonderful people called to cry on My shoulder.  These amazing people (whose contributions to the world are astounding) got caught up in the "stuff" that makes Us all question Ourselves with judgments based on fear, stress, and the negativities that surround Us.  While I listened and tried to be the best friend that I could be in that moment, it became evident that these wonderful people could not see themselves the way that I see them.   They had no idea that they are My S/Heroes and they keep Me inspired and motivated.  So, it is evident that this particular speculation is needed to remind Us that We are all human and should strive to be the best examples of the highest meaning of that term.   This writing offers an opportunity for a perspective which will enhance your life.  I hope that you receive what you need, so stay tuned...

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Up Next: 2 Fun Parties!  I will see you there!

From The Press Release:

~ ~ SUSPENSION, Sunday August  24, 2008 - a private play party.  "Let's hang". 

Doors open 10:30pm, China 1, 50 Ave B at 4th Street, (212) 375 0665, Manhattan

This is a new space and a new night!    All proceeds go to support the party. 

The creators of the AVN After Party, Las Vegas, Mike B and Kelley Dane announce, a Powder coated production…  A night of a thousand kisses, a night of a thousand lashes, when reality falls away and you take flight.  Weightless above the earth, you are the breath that stills between intakes of air, the time that exists outside of time, the complete absence of preconception.  Reason halted, mystery divined, a celebration of sensation, altered, clarified. Welcomed, you drift high, surrounded by creatures, playing, spinning, dancing, beautiful creatures just like you – suspended.  Tonight's Parlor Games: Blind Man's Bluff, Know thy mate, Red, Green (No, You're Not Safe), Kelley Dane's Bondage Challenge.

Support the gig: Creatively dressed individuals $7.00 but only $10.00 per couple. To the mundane a surcharge of $15 per person is imposed for bringing us down.

A private anything goes play party devoid of judgment and preconceived notions. Full suspension and play equipment for general use.

Contact: suspensionnyc@gmail.com with inquires.

See Y/you at the Party!  And don't be shy; come on over and say hello!  Just be sure to mind your manners....

~ The Baroness' Fetish Retinue Returns!!!!  September 7th!

Doors open at 9pm, Uncle Mings, 225 Avenue B (13th & 14th streets above the liquor store), New York City

From The Baroness' Press Release:

"Sunday, September 7th marks the start of The Fetish Retinue party season! With this new season I am seeking a new bevy of latex lovelies, so the evening's entertainment will be The Baroness’ Latex Lovelies Competition! Anyone can try out—women, men, tops or bottoms, new or experienced. You don't even have to own any latex. Each month The Baroness' latex lovelies will not only get to enjoy and help create a fabulous Fetish Retinue party, but you'll also be paid in Baroness gift certificates, so you can build your wardrobe.

What you must be is: social, interactive, reliable, available the first Sunday of every month from 8pm on, and ready to cause a ruckus! Register now at www.Baroness.com/forms/LatexLovelies.html and tell your friends!

The short competition will consist of a few questions, a grab bag of tricks, and the opportunity to wow the audience with any particular skill, talent or interest you possess. Although the audience will judge contestants, of course I have the final say, and let me say, I can be bribed, and I love champagne. The first place winner will receive a $100 Baroness latex gift certificate, the runner up a $50 certificate, and everyone else the pleasure of a good time and comps for my Fetish Retinue party. So start planning your routine and let the games begin!

The first Sunday of the month, this intimate fetish party’s location is Uncle Ming's, 225 Avenue B, between 13th and 14th streets (above the liquor store), on the 2nd Floor, New York City. Doors open at 9pm 

A firm believer that “Any occasion to dress is an occasion to overdress”, I reward those of you who do so with FREE ADMISSION if you look absolutely fabulous, $5 in Fetish, $15 in all black, and $20 in street wear, $30 in sneakers or blue jeans.

For more information call 212 529 5964 or visit www.Baroness.com.
And so you can plan your party season wardrobe, themes and dates follow. If you’re into (or are) animals and circus freaks you’ll love the Octobers’ theme!

October 5th: Circus Freaks Dog-and-pony show
November 2nd: my birthday and masks
December 7: Deck the Halls at The Baroness’ Holiday Fetish Retinue party!  

The Baroness
www.Baroness.com
www.myspace.com/TheLatexBaroness
530 B East 13th Street
New York City, NY 10009
Monday-Saturday 2-7 Thursday 2-9

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* Classic Fetish™ Resources

~ The Mistress Didi*s Articles including How To Approach A Mistress, Domme vs. dumme, submissive vs. substandard, and NEW ~ The cybertrog!  NEW: Easy Wig Care Tips!

~ Human Bird Cage for sale!  It's gorgeous and well-made.  I have had quite a bit of fun locking subbies in there!   Too bad I have a small NYC apartment (that has the nerve to have two bedrooms and I still don't have room for My shoes) or I would snatch it up!  Click Here to Contact The Owner with offers and inquiries.   Mind your manners.

~ Make Cell Phone Companies Accountable.  I have taken the time to compile a detailed list on how to deal with cell phone company complaints.  Now, of course, the process is set up to annoy you, consume too much time and energy, and basically get you running around in circles.  However, if enough people follow the proper procedures - especially through government and legal channels -  cell phone companies will have to be accountable for all their heinous crimes.  I have compiled the information HERE where you can bookmark it and refer to it EVERY TIME YOU NEED TO.  Once enough people make a fuss, elected officials will get the bright idea that yes, We, The People need a bill(s) sponsored in Congress to regulate the thievery!   I have made it easy for you.  Now, DO YOUR PART to see that We, The People, are treated with respect for the money We pay these companies for what should be a basic service at affordable prices for everyone.  AND, Goddess that I am, I have included a link to amazing resources for you and your cell phone.  CLICK HERE

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And while you're at Taboo Leather, create your own Wish List!  And visit My Wish List by typing in My email address ~ MistressDidi1@yahoo.com.

Fun Stuff!

~ The Fold - If Torchwood's blend of science fictional sauciness left you unsatisfied, The Fold will probably hit all of your sweet spots. Time travel sex, inter-dimensional hot tubs, psychic S/M, orgasms from space and World Of Warcraft are just some of the bizarre SF concepts The Fold hits on.   Check out Episode 1 of The Fold.

~ Sado Mazo - Great lifestyle dramatization similar to My lifestyle (except I allow My subs to have their own beds)!  Lots of fun!  Watch it here!

~ Darth Vader in Love - This needs no further introduction.  Enjoy!

~ Something Fabulous!  Judy Chicago's "The Dinner Party" Exhibit at The Brooklyn Museum.   Take the virtual tour of an absolutely, phenomenal work by artist Judy Chicago, which is housed at The Brooklyn Museum in New York City.  If you are lucky enough to see it in person, do so!  You won't regret it.  Plus, The Brooklyn Museum has one of (if not "the") largest collections of Egyptian artifacts in the world!

Good Works!

Remember: If you are not a part of the solution, you are part of the problem.

~ The Hunger Site.  The Hunger Site was founded to focus the power of the Internet on a specific humanitarian need: the eradication of world hunger. Since its launch in June 1999, the site has established itself as a leader in online activism, helping to feed the world's hungry. On average, over 220,000 individuals from around the world visit the site each day to click the yellow "Click Here to Give - it's FREE" button. To date, more than 300 million visitors have given more than 500 million cups of staple food.  The staple food funded by clicks at The Hunger Site is paid for by site sponsors and distributed to those in need by Mercy Corps and America's Second Harvest. 100% of sponsor advertising fees goes to our charitable partners.  Funds are split between these organizations and go to the aid of hungry people in Africa, Asia, Eastern Europe, the Middle East, Latin America and North America.  All of us here at The Hunger Site are also deeply moved by the humanitarian crisis in Darfur . Learn how you can help!

~ FreeRice is a great way to contribute to the world hunger problem while enhancing your vocabulary.  So, it is not only good for you, it is great for your kids.  For each word that you correctly know the meaning of, several grains of rice are placed in a virtual bowl.  When the bowl is full, you continue to create another bowl.  The bowls of rice you create are donated to starving nations.  The site keeps track of your best score and stays challenging with a wide variety of words.  So, feed the hungry every day with FreeRice.  I contribute at least 1000 grains every day.  Go for it!

~ DailyVisits.com.  From the site:  "Everything on this website is free.  Much of the content here is updated daily.   This is a not-for-profit international site where you can help improve the world and yourself. You can use this site to convert a few minutes of your time into positive changes with significant results."  There is a resource link to hundreds of humanitarian websites, newsfeeds, and all kinds of other goodies.

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See, Play, and Party with Y/you very, VERY soon!

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Stimulating Quotes

"Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more."
~ Erica Long (?)

"Only a brave person is willing to honestly admit, and fearlessly to face, what a sincere and logical mind discovers."
~  Rodan of Alexandria

"Fortune favors the brave."
~ Virgil

"He who is brave is free."
~  Seneca The Elder

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Enjoy!

Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
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