Mistress Didi*s Newsletter ~ October 9, 2007

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October 09, 2007

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In This Issue:
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Photos of My
Fabulous Shoe Party!

The Difference Between
"Shoe" & "Foot"

Punish Crappy
Cab Drivers

SPAM Folder Tip

How To Use A Rawhide Cane Video Clip

Community Things
The Sensual Sheet

Stimulating Quote

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Photos of My
Fabulous Shoe Party

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Well! As always, what a wonderful group of people, artistic Play and a genuine good time We all had at My Party! Attendees understood the difference between a Shoe Party and a foot party, so E/everyone wore great shoes and fashionable outfits to match! I absolutely LOVE P/people with style!

Check out the PUBLIC SHOE PARTY SLIDE SHOW (click & drag the controls to move to a comfortable viewing space) of photos by Sean Friedman Photography. The fabulous Lorence Ferich will have some photos for U/us when he returns to NYC, so W/we have those photos to look forward to, as well!

The wonderful Tiffany-Jean was My perfect right-hand-T-girl and she was assisted by the lovely, escape artist erin houdini, who brought jessie, a very stylish T-girl in an incredible pair of shoes!

Mistress Clarissa attended with Master Star and gave Rossbound a voguish mummification!

One of the things I love the most about My Parties and Events is that I always have a group of truly diverse P/people of all ages, persuasions and talents. It is always a thrill to meet new friends, like a few folks from MaxFisch (who have restored My joy in Lifestylers on the boards instead of just dungeonistas [overposting and trying to drum up business] and a bunch of skanker-wankers). My friends, Hydromadam and Mistress Valeria, brought Mistress Helena to add to the already overflowing beauty in the venue! Continuing the flow of beauty, Mistress Psyche arrived with Mistress Eden and two subs in tow. All were absolutely gorgeous and We had a great time! I truly enjoy the intelligent and creative energy of My G/guests.

Best of all, I LOVE that ugly people never show up to My Events... Y/you know why? Beauty and ugliness are on the inside and they beam through to the outside. Sharing the beauty inside of Y/you is one of the fundamentals of Classic Fetish™. Ugly people cannot be comfortable around True Beauty, which is why so many "unfortunates" experience Me as an incredible Bitch in the way that I fiercely protect those in My Domain.

It is beside the point that I so very much enjoy being that Bitch = Being In Total Control of Herself. And yes, the photo is of My tiny, size 5 feet; size 4½ in open-toed shoes. Fit right in your mouth...

The Difference Between
"Shoe" and "Foot"

Though I'm not surprised, I'm still stunned by how many people DO NOT PAY ATTENTION! I said it in My Newsletters, in My postings about the Party, and in every correspondence that came My way that My Party was a SHOE Party, to celebrate Y/your fabulous shoes, NOT a foot party. NOWHERE DID I SAY ANYTHING ABOUT FOOT WORSHIP OR ANYTHING REMOTELY SIMILAR TO A FOOT PARTY.

So, I'm amazed at how many people confuse the word "shoe" with the word "foot". With dictionary.com, Google and other search engines, it's easy enough for folks to take a moment from looking up porn to do a little research to understand what they're being told ~ Evidently not, from the numerous comments I received about how people were "not into foot parties", so they didn't attend My SHOE Party.

To be nice, I won't say that folks are just stupid (because W/we all have "duh" days). I'll choose not to be annoyed that they dare to attempt to make decisions for Me to the contrary of WHAT I SPECIFICALLY SAY. I will just chalk it all up to the fact that they don't pay attention to what they read and are told leave it at that.

Perhaps, if people would take a time-out from their insistence that the world is the way they believe it is and try some new thoughts, a refreshing realm of adventure and Partying would be available to them. And with their new thoughts, perhaps, they could bring some of their beauty to the rest of U/us and make a contribution to refresh the Scene. Now, there's a nice (though probably utopian) thought.

Punish Crappy Cab Drivers!

I am completely fed up with the droves of cabbies who bring their sexist, racist mentalities and smelly bodies to New York City to offend Me and then want Me to tip them on top of the fare for the ride. I have had issues with drivers who got attitudes when I told them they could not have My phone number and that I had no interest in them. Recently, one idiot refused to take the route I requested -- which is the LAW -- and tried to throw Me out of the cab at 2:30 AM. That ended with Me calling the police and filing a complaint with the Taxi & Limousine Commission (TLC). I filed another complaint on a driver (with an accent so thick I could barely make out the swear words he attempted to insult Me with) who refused to take My disabled friend's dog. I enjoyed going to the hearing for that one.

What completely disgusts Me is the fact that most of these guys "just get off the boat" and decide that they are going to rewrite the laws, treat Women and People of Color like crap -- all the while never seeing what's looking back at them in the mirror -- and dehumanize disabled people.

As it is, every time W/we turn around, there is a taxi fare hike. I sympathize with cabbies that the price of gas is exorbitant, that renting the car for the day is quite expensive and that they, like everyone else, are trying to make a living and feed their families. But I want proper service for My money; not some creep taking out his disappointment with his failures on Me and expecting Me to pay for an uncomfortable ride and tip him on top of that.

So, the next time some cabbie gives Y/you crap, be responsible and write down his cab number and his license number (if they even bother to have their license in the slot -- not displaying their license is punishable by a huge fine). File Y/your complaint with the TLC because if Y/you are not a part of the solution, Y/you are part of the problem. ( http://www.nyc.gov/html/tlc/html/passenger/complaint_confirm.shtml )

And I want them all to bathe, wear deodorant and clean clothes, and have air-fresheners in the car to kill the smells of all that food.

I want My New York City back and these creeps with their attitudes of entitlement and offensive behavior are ruining the joy and convenience of having cabs available.

Do Y/your part. File Y/your complaints with the TLC.

Spam Folder Tip

I REALLY dislike SPAM, but worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people did not follow the easy instructions to make sure that Y/you receive My Emails.

So, here's a tip for easy viewing of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column. Y/you should be able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the emails are from, the subject, etc. If Y/you click on the FROM tab, your emails should sort alphabetically. The same goes for navigating your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject and other tabs to sort them for easy reading. This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and aggravation.

How To Use A Rawhide Cane
Video Tidbit

While experimenting with My new video camera, I've decided to give Y/you a little bit of info in video form on How To Use a Rawhide Cane.

This little video was just a tester, but a whole lot of fun to make!

I hope Y/you enjoy this Freeview!

Community News

I have been requested to give "equal time" to My promotion of various Community Resources. So, now I will have this section as a regular feature so that those who wish to share with U/us are given a fair share of promotion in My Newsletters. A word to the wise: the resources listed below are run by people with manners. I have mentioned others in the past and not even received a "thank you", which is why Y/you don't see them here now. So, if Y/you wish to be listed in My Newsletters, be certain to have appreciation for My desire to offer resources to the Community.

There is a FemDomme site that I am a member of that I think is just wonderful! It is called FemDomme Society and Y/you can become a member free! Dommes and Our admirers can access information on training, personals, have a photo album and all kinds of goodies. Click the link above to sign up!

Morpheus is one of those talented Doms who really cares about O/our community. So, Morpheus has created a list to keep U/us informed of the various "alternative" events that are happening in the NYC area. Y/you can subscribe to this list here: nycALTevents@gmail.com

There is also MyDungeonSpace where Dominants and submissives have a more Scene oriented site with forums, chat, photos, and more!

The Sensual Sheet has been spread out for G/ guests to try and Play on at My last few Parties! I am a huge fan of this glorious product that is machine washable and easy to care for (Y/you should know by now how I feel about cleanliness and sanitary conditions!). Go to the website and take a look at the beautiful colors and designs. The wonderful Miss Shonagh, designer and proprietress, will offer My A/associates a 10% discount on Y/your orders, so click here to check it out and place Y/your order: www.sensual-being.com.

If Y/you know of any cool links or lists, please forward the info to Me so that W/we can share it with O/our Community!

Paying Attention to RSVP

Read the info that I carefully put on My Website on the Etiquette Page to ensure a seamless flow to RSVPing and receiving Event details. My policy is:

1 - Do NOT contact Me to RSVP - that's why Y/you are directed to My Website to RSVP in ALL correspondence about My Events;

2 - Read ThePartyDomme Yahoo Auto-Response for info. This is why Y/you need to check Y/your spam folders and follow the instructions on how to fix Y/your email account to receive My emails. I have even been so generous as to investigate instructions on how Y/you can ensure that Y/you receive My emails for several email systems. So, be certain to follow the instructions to receive emails from all of My accounts; and

3 - For those who still can't get it together and wait until the last minute to RSVP, My Website is updated on the day of the Event so that Y/you still have the ability to receive the info Y/you need.

See, Play and Party with Y/you very soon!

Stimulating Quote

"We don't stop Playing because we grow old;
we grow old because we stop Playing."

~ George Bernard Shaw

Enjoy!

Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
Classic Fetish™ Therapist
Glamour Domme
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