November 2nd, 20-MEleven!

The Mistress Didi* Commands

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SWIRL is a ClassicFetish™ After-Work Meet & Greet Play Party where you can Blend your Fetish with your vanilla! The SWIRL Family  is growing with the Finest Fetishist in the Tri-State area.  My mission to bring together exceptional people of like minds and energies continues to manifest to improve the state of Our Scene.  Meet The SWIRL Divas and Divos Who will be in attendance at this upcoming soiree and in the future! I created SWIRL for you to be able to attend an affordable, all-inclusive, PRIVATE, Fetish gathering straight from work, have good conversations with good people you want to Play with, enjoy fine beverages and hors d'oeuvres, and still get enough rest to work the next day!  (Read The Policy on Drinking at My Events)  I believe in building the Fetish Community rather than solely seeking to profit from it.

Read the review of SWIRL 7/28 in Socially Superlative Magazine

What makes My events unique is that I design an exceptional Fetish experience to attend to your desire to entertain what thrills you in a civilized, adult environment that appeals to your senses and sensibilities.  My events are an alternative to the "loud & crowd" collections.  My MUSIC is specifically formulated for a multi-cultural & comfortable groove, played at conversational decibel levels, and to boost your endorphin flow for added pleasure! 

SWIRL is NOT a pay-to-play type of party.  It is a REAL social gathering of Fabulous Fetishists!  SWIRL is a safe space to be your best and enjoy the best that others share for BetterFetish™!

Special Admission is available for online purchasers beginning November 1st and there is a SPECIAL EARLY ADMISSION RATE - so don't delay!  It should go without saying, but I will say it anyway: your privacy is paramount and NONE of your information will be shared with any beings at any time.  Cash will only be accepted at the door.

ALL ATTENDEES MUST RSVP or you will be denied admission - no exceptions. 

A few folks have been singing the low-funds-blues, so if you are experiencing a bit of a cash drought, contact My assistant to be of service at the party with opportunities to enjoy yourself. 

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And I have been VERY generous in how I've handled his sad, little creature.  I didn't have to "out" him; he did it himself with ludicrous attempts to destroy My Domain while unwittingly serving Me better than if I'd commanded him to serve! 

If you didn't know, this creep contacted everyone in his "friends" list on a networking site to warn them that I "threw [him] out for singing and talking to a beautiful woman."  he continues to stalk Me by contacting EVERYONE who responds to Me on forum posts with his nonsense (if only he'd put half that effort into becoming a better person).  Since birds of a feather flock together, folks who would believe a story like his are too stupid to attend any of My events in the first place.  So, while I believe that creatures like him are the reason that birth control should be free and sterilization mandatory, I couldn't pay for better service to My Purpose (not that I would have to)! 

The only sad things from this situation are that the 5 people who complained about him at the party had to endure him in the first place and that the "beautiful woman" was a newbie and has told Me that she is now too "creeped out" to attend any fetish events for a while.  This is a perfect example of how a distasteful individual is free to offend Us and discourage others from exploring the Beauties of The Fetish Lifestyle because no one has alerted the Community to his repugnance - and how he even made it into My event at all.  I accept full responsibility for not following My instincts - which I WILL do from now on - to deny him admission when he arrived in full, creepy fashion.  If being disrespectful and  "turditudinous" (My new vocabulary word) are his fetish, there are plenty of other events for him and his kind to indulge in. 

I will not allow admission to My Events to anyone who does not show the proper respect from the moment they encounter My Domain.  Period.  I love and respect My Guests and will do everything to ensure Our good times!

Lately, I feel I am unique in that money is not My god; nor do I produce events for the sole purpose of making money.  I design events for the enjoyment of communing with like minds and like energies.  When someone offends Me and Mine, I believe it is My duty to alert The Community to prevent others from being disrespected and, perhaps, harmed by the offender.  If more people were responsible to Our Community and to the people who trust Us, and if more people were brave enough to stand up for what's right against wrong-doers, participating in Our Community would actually be more pleasant instead of a constant flow of dealing with situations where one hopes to avoid having to navigate around "gruesomes".

I respect The Fetish Lifestyle and I believe in having integrity in The Scene.  Sadly, far too many do not agree with having honorable intentions and participate in lying, thieving, maligning, and attempts to outright sabotage not only Me and Mine, but many others who make contributions to the ability for Us to enjoy Our Lifestyles.  Eventually, the barbarians begin to fight amongst themselves in their quests to build monopolies as they run out of people to screw over.  You see this happen all the time.

Over the years, I have received "flack" from people who think that I should keep incidents of bad behavior between Me and the offenders to Myself - probably, because telling others threatens their safety zones for exposure of their own bad behaviors.  Fortunately, I am clear that I will continue to maintain circumstances for the utmost safety in My Domain and protect My guests as a good Hostess should. 

Unfortunately, covert and disreputable habits are what is to be expected as the norm these days (and this is one reason why people are rioting on Wall Street).  To permit atrocities to go unpunished by remaining silent only contributes to more atrocious behavior in the future.  I maintain that If you're not a part of the solution, you are a part of the problem.  Experience has taught Me that exposure (and punishment) of offenders is the best way to maintain the integrity of one's Domain and protect the people you care about.

So, take My commitment to excellence as an invitation to enjoy the safety of My Events and My Domain with intelligent people who have respect, class, and integrity.  And take this as a warning, if you are a troll in any way.  My responsibility is to enjoying The Best We Can Be and I will  be responsible to Our Community even if others are not.

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~  I have compiled My Newsletter Archives where you can find wonderful info, fun-fetish tidbits, and a variety of tips from Me.  Check it out!

~  Kindly refer people to The Mistress Didi*s Articles which include The Importance of Rituals & Protocols,  Domme vs. dumme,  and submissive vs. substandard  Also, Easy Wig Care Tips!

~  My Free eBook:  How To Properly Present yourself To A Mistress is an effort to improve opportunities for submissives to meet Dominants and make a good impression.  It is also an excellent resource for Dominants to assist prospective submissives and those We meet on the roads in Our Fetish Journeys.  Download your "FreeView" and by all means, SHARE!!!  Pass it around!  Contact Me if you would like to obtain the Full Version.

I encourage more Dominants to offer training to those who present substandard behaviors to improve the state of The Scene and restore its tenets of respect and beauty.

~  PLEASE refer folks to My GoddessGlide™ ~ How To Walk In High Heels video so that We can appreciate the shoes without gasping at Frankensteinish-clunking by the people wearing them!

~  My Webcam Workshops: In preparation for private, semi-private, and group ClassicFetish™ Workshops via webcam,  am in the process of testing various web conferencing programs.  While I am doing this, I will conduct a few Workshops for a small, $10 donation to one of My Charities!  This is your opportunity to be charitable while gaining valuable knowledge!  Space will be extremely limited, so if you would like to take part during My test drives, click here and follow instructions.  Participation will be on a first-come, first-served basis. More Info...

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In case you're new here or haven't figured it out, the quotes that I choose
always represent the theme of the current issue.
This Issue's Theme is about finding and sharing love in the Joys of My Domain.

"In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit."

~ Albert Schweitzer

"Love does not care to define and is never in a hurry to do so."

~ Charles du Bos

"Sometimes it's a form of love just to talk to somebody that you have nothing in common with and still be fascinated by their presence."

~ David Byrne

"You don't have to go looking for love when it's where you come from."

Werner Erhardt

"Jealousy is not only a waste of time, but a waste of time to love yourself."

~ Mistress Didi*

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