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November 26, 2007

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First, My many thanks to all of the wonderful people who invited Me to their Thanksgiving feasts!  It was so thoughtful and gracious of them and I consider it quite an honor to be asked to share their dinners with them.  Really, I am truly aware of how blessed I am to be cared for by so many.  (To those who invited Me and read this, I expect you to be laughing at most of it as you do!  Be certain to invite Me to other gatherings, though!)

So, as I politely declined, I waited a day or two and then told My real reasons for not doing Thanksgiving:

1)  I am predominantly vegetarian and I have not eaten turkey for more than 20 years.  Since any type of meat or poultry in food will make Me ill, I always say that I'm a bummer at Thanksgiving dinners, but the truth is that I'm bummed at the boring salad that awaits Me, or worse, at the cook who thinks a "little bit of" whatever won't "hurt" Me until I'm vomiting... and attempting to make it look like an accident while I aim it at the favorite rug or couch...   

2)  I don't like making people feel uncomfortable in their domains because I am not participating in the gluttony-fest.   Aside from the fact that people always feel sorry for Me that I don't eat "meat" while I feel sorry for them that they do,  I have to endure the, "that's how you stay in that shape" conversations.  This inevitably comes from the fattest person at the gathering, speaking with that second piece of pie in hand.

3)  Since I usually have to eat before I go to Thanksgiving dinner to ensure that I don't get hungry, what's the sense in going out if I've already cooked and can stay home and watch the football game?  And if I watch the game at someone's home, I'm usually the only woman with all the males and the females get their feathers ruffled more than usual when I'm in a room.  Little do they know ~ or maybe they do know ~ that the only thing I would want their men to do is grovel at My feet with tributes.

4)  There are usually children at these affairs.  I don't have the patience or the ability to be polite enough (and I have so much more politeness than seems to be the norm - especially these days) to tolerate "little precious" and the sugar-high s/he will be on the whole evening until the tryptophan kicks in.  And usually, with children, this never happens soon enough. 

5)  Someone inevitably thinks I'm actually going to help ~ or even offer to help ~ in the kitchen or clear the table or something... 

6)   I gave up illegal drugs before leaving My teens and there isn't a drug in the world that can make Me able to deal with "family drama" ~ especially someone else's family drama!

7)  I am blessed to have been born into a family of a very diverse group of cultures.  My tribe considers Thanksgiving a day of mourning.  It is the annual reminder that Our ancestors showed kindness to save the lives of starving barbarians who returned the gifts they were given with death to Our people, Our forests, Our buffalo and eagles, with prejudice, lies, destruction, and thievery on every level.  

8)  I give thanks every day and don't need one day to celebrate all the blessings that I have.

However, bah-humbug this may sound, I look forward to My day of football and pasta on taht third Thursday of November!

Yet, softy-that-I-can-be, I always consider the person who has nothing to do for the "holiday" (but wishes they did) and sometimes, I invite people to come out and have a drink with Me to share some of that "togetherness" that is so highly commercialized to sell you things to buy for Christmas presents.  Fortunately, We "ain't buying it" and We give thanks for having the time to get together for a little fun in Our hectic schedules! 

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I have added 3 new workshops to My List of the techniques I enjoy teaching and there will be more to come, as I create time to enhance the flow of My presentations.  

Voluminous Spanking™ was inspired by the spanking group of TES, who asked Me to do another workshop on spanking.  So, I decided to combine My Volume™ Techniques with My SensualSpanking™ Techniques for truly dynamic, spank-o-rama enjoyments!   I will give My Voluminous Spanking™ Workshop with TES on Saturday, February 16, 2008.

I've also added My How To Be With Dominas & Women™ Workshop for anyone who desires to learn secrets of success in communicating with Women, which ultimately leads to pleasing Us, which is always a good thing!   I was inspired to present this Workshop by the unbelievably stupid emails I receive from the incredibly clueless...

Speaking of emails, lately (I suppose due to My article, submissive vs. substandard) I've received quite a few requests for advice from submissives desiring to please Dominants.  So, I have created My Superior submissive™ Workshop to address numerous issues that submissives need to know and how to deal with them to be the best of the best in service to their Dominants.

NOTE:  There has been a change in the schedule for My  Transcendent Trampling™ Workshop which I will present with Domsub Friends to February 1, 2008.  This Workshop brings to light techniques for more to trampling than just standing on someone.  Detailed descriptions of these and other Workshops can be found on My Website.

Hopefully, soon I will be able to sit down long enough to edit the video footage from My MaxWax™ Workshop with Domsub Friends to give Y/you a glimpse of what fun that Workshop is!

In the meantime, if Y/you haven't seen My How To Use A Rawhide Cane tidbit, take a look HERE.  If Y/you have seen it, I hope Y/you've had a chance to Play with My safe and fun caning techniques!

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I don't know how many of Y/you know Hilton of Purple Passion here in NYC.  I've only met him a few times, totally like his vibe, and have heard absolutely nothing but lovely things about him.  So, when I got an email announcing that he was recently honored by being elected to the Leather Archives and Museum Board as the East Coast Board Member, I was delighted for him and for the Community!

This is a pretty big deal and My heart-felt congratulations go out to Hilton.  I already sent him an email, but I thought that this is news that should be shared with as many people as possible in Our Community.

For those who don't know, the Leather Archives & Museum's mission is, "The compilation, preservation and maintenance of leather lifestyle and related lifestyles [including but not limited to the Gay and Lesbian communities], history, archives and memorabilia for historical, educational and research purposes."  You can contribute to the LA&M by giving to the collections, volunteering, and making donations of all kinds that are easy for everyone to do.  Check it out!

The museum's website is: www.leatherarchives.org  and the 2-story, 10,000 square-foot building is located in Chicago and Serving the World!

I am still trying to get over this tremendous sense of emptiness that I am left with by the ... war... and its consumption of My favorite submissive.  I have gone to a few parties and I am still looking for that hard-body masochist to thrill Me to thrilling Us both.

So, to gift Myself and My friends, I am having a contest for the fit and fabulous submissive(s) to win an entire Private Play Day with Me and My Domina Goddess Girlfriends.   

Now, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  So, a nice, lean, fit body is as beautiful as a rock-hard-muscle body.  

Don't think you have to look like Mr. or Ms. Universe to be considered as fit and fabulous.  Quite frankly, I don't find that body-builder look very appealing... but that doesn't mean that I won't Play with someone who chooses that way to express their beauty!  And for women, especially, give Us some flesh with your curves!

Go for it!  Show Us that We will want to touch you, to caress you, to punish and reward you... Oh, My!  Getting excited already!

Here are the requirements for consideration:

Since the holiday season will go on for a few weeks, you have plenty of time to get your photos together and make a polite request to join Us in Play!  But don't delay; there are no guarantees for how long We will be available.

I want to try out the lovely, new Toys I received for My Birthday, which are hanging in waiting on My Wall of Pain...

FYI:  Last year, We chose just about everyone who entered!  Oh, what delectable fun!

Submit your info HERE. 

There is a wonderful website that benefits Everyone!  While testing and building your vocabulary skills, for each correct answer, rice is donated through the United Nations to help end world hunger!  The site is called Free Rice and I wish more people would use it and, especially, have their children use it.  So, while fighting to end world hunger, the site assists in educating the internet community!  It's fun (and addictive) and a great way to spend time on the internet.

I was inspired to mention this because recently, on one of those message boards where a bunch of losers get mixed in with Fetish Folks, a tack-head attempted to attack Me with a 3rd grade vocabulary at best; what a surprise.  It is always those who are sitting in a shack in a field in the middle of nowhere with an ear of corn stuck up their a##es (and calling it a "Dom/me"), spending the hours they should be at a gym in front of the computer and believing that they are in The Scene.  These creepazoids only seek to bemoan and demean Others Who are actually doing things in The Community, and make message boards the tedious bore they often are.  And they seldom have communication abilities beyond those of a trout.

So, this insipid wanna-sub was only looking to feed off of My fabulous energy with the negativity she instigated.  You know the type; no matter what You say, they look to play "make-wrong".   It was something to do and I amused Myself with it for as long as I felt like it until it no longer entertained Me.   And, of course, some guy who wants to BE Me was jealous of My wardrobe...  Neither of them accepted the invitations to meet Me face-to-face; what a surprise, too.

Just so it is known, I will continue to do as I please, how I please, when I please on message boards (and elsewhere) and I will ignore all wretches after I've had My fun with them, if I bother with them at all.  After all, I am REALLY contributing to the REAL Scene and desire to put My energies to building up the Community.  And, no humiliation sessions without proper Tribute.

I REALLY dislike SPAM, but worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people did not follow the easy instructions to make sure that Y/you receive My Emails.

So, here's a tip for easy viewing of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column.  Y/you should be able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the emails are from, the subject, etc.  If Y/you click on the FROM tab, your emails should sort alphabetically.  The same goes for navigating your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject and other tabs to sort them for easy reading.  This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and aggravation.

See, Play and Party with Y/you very soon!

Stimulating Quote

“Show me a sane man and I will cure him for you.”

~ Carl Gustav Jung

Enjoy!

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