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December 22, 200Gr8!

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What I Do

The 12 "Duhs"
of Christmas
 

Fun Stuff

The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory 
  Video Tips

Classic Fetish™ Resources

Community Tidbits
Good Works

New Book: Guide For submissive males
Miss Rubber World Pageant
& The 3rd Annual New York Rubber Ball

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What I Do


Sadly, most people do not have a clue to what I do as a Classic Fetish™ Therapist.  Far too many people are too lazy to read My websites and then, have the nerve to make up their own silly fantasies about Who I Am and What I Do. 

Due to the unfortunate decline in etiquette, class, and respect, in general, of the state of The Scene during the past few years, too many people choose to believe that I fit into the category of the dummes.  They make the terrible mistake of approaching Me improperly and are disappointed when I refuse to allow their attempts to justify their stupidity.

I take the Fetish Arts VERY seriously.  I am offended by the “sleezoid” creatures who not only give Fetish a bad name, but who refuse to evolve past their selfishness and self-hatred and cause harm in a variety of ways on a variety of levels.

So, I have simplified What I Do on My Wepage, The Mistress Didi*s Career Choices to clarify, educate, and clear away misconceptions.   You'll be surprised at what you don't know...

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The 12 "Duhs" of Christmas


Below are My responses to some of the audacities and atrocities (herein referred to as "duhs") attempted in My Domain during this past year that those who have offended and attempted to offend Me are all in a huff-n-puff about now.   Quite a few people have asked Me how I've dealt with such annoyances.  I always try to find some amusement in "duhs", so I hope that the following public service announcement offers you some amusement, too.
1.

I am NOT the Fetish Police.  For some reason, people complain to ME about their discomforts with events and other people they encounter in The Scene!  Now, I have in the past, in the interests of seeing event promoters succeed, relayed concerns that were expressed to Me ~ namely, that the music was too loud, which seems to be an epidemic at nearly every event.  However, far too many of these promoters have been ungrateful, stupidly thought I wanted to have some control over their events, and suffered from other ego-driven mania.  So, if I attend an event that I do not enjoy, I will not attend that event again.   If I do not enjoy the company of someone, I will no longer associate with that person.

Anyone else who has a problem with something or someone MUST address that problem on their own.  If you want to discuss your discomforts with Me, you can Book a Classic Fetish™ Therapy session.  Click HERE to read about Classic Fetish™ Therapy sessions.

2.

Smileys

Because you have seen a person with Me at events, etc., does not mean that they can ride on My reputation.  I have been astounded on too many occasions by people contacting Me to complain about someone they'd seen Me partying with who'd found a way to invade their spaces.  Why did they not call Me BEFORE they allowed the annoyance?  That would have made sense.  To take a person at face value, thinking s/he was "cool" because s/he was "hanging out with Mistress Didi" ~ and I am quoting folks verbatim ~ and then calling Me to complain about the person's despicable behaviors AFTER the fact is ANNOYING to Me.  Just what do you think I'm going to do about it?  If the person is not My sub or under My protection in some way, I have no need nor desire to get involved.

Just because someone has been SEEN with Me does not mean that I vouch for that person's character.  I understand that some people are good in your life for certain things and that's where it ends.  Hence My Motto: From each according to his abilities, to each according to My Desires.  I suggest that people be more careful about who they let into their environments and why.  And if you don't see Me hanging out with the person any more, take that as a clue. 

3.

Smileys

I am not responsible for the consequences of your actions.  If you've asked for My advice and didn't take it, don't complain to Me, and definitely do not attempt to find fault with Me for your failures.  You can  Book a Classic Fetish™ Therapy session with Me to work through these issues towards successful resolutions.  Whatever you do, understand that until you accept responsibility for your own actions, your life will continue "missing" fulfillment.
4.

Smileys

I punish liars, cheats, thieves, and other unscrupulous scoundrels.  Do not steal from Me.  This is almost too unbelievable and if it didn't actually happen to Me, I would not believe it.   Some stupid creature took one of My Workshops ~ and I have her on video tape trying out the techniques I'd just taught ~ and then she: 1) COPIED SEGMENTS FROM MY WEBSITE WORD FOR WORD and replaced My name with hers; 2) promoted on a few forums that she was teaching MY workshop for some group I'd never heard of; and 3) after people brought this to My attention and I told her that she could not use My trademarked property without My permission, she told Me that "this is a free country" and that if I didn't want people to use My work that I shouldn't put it on the internet.  Yes, she is that stupid.

It gets better.  I contacted the group she promoted doing the workshop for and their response to Me was that they knew her and didn't know Me, so as far as they were concerned, I could have stolen the work from her.  Yes, they are that stupid, too.

I wasted no time in contacting the forum boards and her website and the  group's website hosting services with proof of her plagiarism and the responses I received from both parties.  Within 48 hours, the forums had removed her and the group's accounts and both her website and the group's websites were shut down for "violation of terms of service".  There are currently no traces of these people.   If I have any further aggravations from them of any kind, I will punish them to the full extent of the law and beyond.  I am very appreciative of those wonderful people who continue to watch and look out for Me.

A few days later, a Domme I knew from My fun days on the West Coast sent Me an email that was sent to Her from a couple requesting to serve Her.  The photo they'd included of themselves was actually a photo that was taken of Me and someone at a party.  These people had actually smudged the watermark that I place on all of My photos!  This is a form of identity theft.  (By the way, this wonderful Domme is handling things quite deliciously.)

Plagiarism and identity theft are crimes that are punishable by law and should, in My opinion, be punishable by death.  Please do not ask Me about particulars; I will not speak on these violations further unless it is necessary.

5.

Smileys

Do not abuse My kindness or confuse it for weakness.  Get your ego in check.   I have been generous to a fault because I know how wonderful Fetish is when you can balance it into your life with the proper respect for your circumstances.  I have unselfishly given (to quite a few people) My advice, tutelage, and support to boost their self-esteem and assist them on their Paths of Fetish Evolution.  I had never met many of these people, or heard of them before they contacted Me for help.  I gave My care and consideration as a gift; I was not looking for tribute, which is a good thing because the selfish have yet to offer anything.  For too many, My generosity will never be enough and they have become belligerent with "demands".   I cut them off from My Domain and Energies completely.

It seems that the growing epidemic of "entitlement" is going to get people into a lot of trouble because now some folks believe their own "fetish stories" and think they can invade My Domain and be disrespectful to Me.   Typical of those who identify with their lower, animalistic qualities, they want to challenge the Leader for the pretense of their dominance.

Here is the last advice I am going to give to these people: 1) I was here before you; 2) you admired Me and came to Me for help - not the other way around; 3) I was generous and genuinely wanted to see you happy; and 4) as soon as you started to feel better about the loser you chose to be, you lost your mind along the way and are carried away with your ego.  Remember, the ego is a façade ~ sooner than later, your real truth will come out and bite you hard on the a##.

I will do nothing to you nor for you; you will create your own lessons from here on.  I wish you well.  Because I am kind, when your walls come tumbling down, I won't say I told you so.

6.

Smileys

There's a reason I look like My photos.  Learn from and be inspired by Me instead of being jealous of Me.   This has been a year of sneers, jeers, and ugliness from those who consider themselves My peers.  If they were truly on My level, they would know that the first rule of Dominance is Self-Love, Self-Discipline and Self-Care.

If you love yourself, you can love and see the beauty in others and never have a need to feel jealousy in any form.   Loving yourself involves taking the time to educate yourself in proper physical, mental, and spiritual wellness.  I work on this every day and I support everyone who works on being the best they can be.  It's hard work most of the time, but life is about learning these lessons and overcoming the hurdles.  So, don't be a hater, be an appreciator! (You have to say that with a bit of a hip-hop accent to make it rhyme!)

7.

Smileys

 

NEVER try to Domme The Domme.  Silly people think that because I tell them something they believe to be private about My life, that they know all about Me and that We're "friends".  I tell what I want to be known for My purposes and for the safety of everyone involved ~ we'll leave it at that.   I am The Party Domme and I have a gift of making people (who are not jealous) feel comfortable around Me.   For the sake of "a good time", I may even briefly listen to people talk all kinds of crap and let them think I don't know better.   Unfortunately, they then choose to believe that they are smarter than I am.  Next thing you know, they're trying to manipulate their "reindeer games" and they get all upset ~ as if I'm Satan for not allowing them to have their way in MY Domain.  Temper tantrums, attempts to disparage Me, social disgraces, do not work because I do not care.  No matter what, the intruder NEVER gets the desired coup.  In other words, it becomes apparent that they do not matter to Me at all.  I may have My moment to release My annoyance of their breathing valuable oxygen, but then, I let it and them go with well-wishes.  I remain secure in My Domain. 

Note:  Friendship is earned and I take it VERY seriously.  I offer My friendship with a true heart and you have to do something truly horrible for Me to remove My love from your life.  Everyone gets the 3-strikes-you're-out-rule; some people have received many more strikes and still have not appreciated them.  Those who betray My  friendship always suffer guilt, sleeplessness, and never experience true contentment for the rest of their lives.  I am forgiving, but those who have no remorse for their offenses will never be able to forgive themselves.  And with their dying breaths, they will regret their betrayals of Me.  And so it is.  That's karma and why I don't waste My time with revenge ~ I prefer to be out shoe shopping.

8.

Smileys

The pretense of racist unawareness/stupidity/false-humor will be countered with a racist wake-up call.  In My last newsletter, I mentioned the astounding bad manners and insults of "friends"  who have known Me long enough to know better than to insinuate that I would only vote for Obama because he is Black and who called Me on election day to convince Me NOT to vote for him.  Well, there seems to be an increase in racial stupidity all around.  Just last week, I attended a cocktail party where some little idiot from Idaho told Me she lived around the corner from Me but ~ and I quote her: "the neighborhood is not white enough for me."   As they (those suffering from entitlement issues, lack of exposure to other cultures, and refusal to think about learning beyond what they already know"these people" come in all sizes, shapes and colors) always do, she gave a little laugh, said, "no offense, but..." and went on to say that she didn't like living where the restaurants were only bad Chinese food and Mexican food.  Why didn't she just say that in the first place?  (And, of course, she had to add that she voted for Obama.)

My theory is that these people think that everyone else is here to accommodate them and wants to be like them.   So, they don't even think about possibly being offensive when they feel comfortable to come up in My beautiful, brown face and say whatever the hell they want to ~ and I'm supposed to agree with them.  If I don't agree, then, I'm being too sensitive or I'm the angry-Black-woman-stereotype.  It's not difficult to understand why I would be angry.

Because I would not disrespect the hostess, I simply asked little-miss-middle-america when she planned to move and did not offer her a ride home or tell her where the good restaurants are.  I chose not to say something that would allow her to be as offended by Me as she was offensive to Me ~ like, "Oh, you're moving in 3 months?  Then the neighborhood will be a little less white for Me."  I'm sure that would have given her a similar slap to what her statement could have been had a lifetime of experience not taught Me to expect this behavior from these people.

However, that is not My truth.  I prefer living in a mixed neighborhood because everything is more interesting, just like My family.  In fact, My neighborhood has a mosaic of people from different countries, races and religions, just like My family ~ that's the REAL New York City ~ not what you see on TV shows like Seinfeld and Friends.  I pity people like her who suffer from the kind of color blindness where they need to see no People of Color around them.  

I am tired of taking the high road with "low-lives" (meaning those who choose to operate on the lowest levels of consciousness).  Every time I recount one of these stories - and there are always stories like this - to My human friends (who also come in all sizes, shapes and colors), they are mortified that 1) someone could be so incredibly unaware of their insensitivity, 2) someone would feel justified to say such stupidity to Me, and 3) social grace and home training are dying out in Our communities.

So, for 2009, I advise people to take a moment to THINK before you open your mouth and stick your foot in it.  Because I won't be taking the high road; I will educate the ignorant  in ways that most amuse Me for the benefit of the Whole.

9.

Smileys

I will no longer be polite about stupid gifts that are given to Me.   This is the time of year when folks want to believe they are better people by purchasing things that represent their "caring" for others.   I have, so far, received some magnificent gifts ~ one of which I am enjoying now as I write this newsletter in front a giant fireplace in a private cabin at a ski resort.  There's a Jacuzzi inside the cabin and spa services come to Me.  Another fantastic gift was a donation to one of My favorite charities in My name.

Last week, however, I got the stupidest gift I've ever received: a 4-foot, ugly, cheapo, stuffed animal - I think it was supposed to be a gorilla.  Now, let's think, shall We?  I live in a New York City apartment = small, not enough closet space, and I am always complaining about where to store My shoes.  This incredibly ugly, child's toy was probably a county-fair-prize won for ring-toss or something and the giver couldn't get rid of it.  he figured he could solve two problems at once and get rid of this eyesore while pretending to himself that since he was giving Me a gift, I should think well of him.

For the first time in My life, I gave an honest reaction to receiving a stupid gift.  I was raised to be polite and to believe that it's the thought that counts, but I have finally reached My limit with the practice of that philosophy.  To give Me such a useless, impractical, monstrosity prompted Me to say, "What is this ugly thing and why are you trying to pawn it off on Me?  you can't possibly think I could want or use this in any way.  Why did you NOT look at My Tribute Page and choose something on it?  I have gifts that I'd like in all price ranges to fit everyone's budget!"  Because I am a kind Sadist, I saved him by not allowing him to answer, which would have further annoyed Me.  I told him that it could be donated to a toy drive and I was embarrassed to donate such a monstrosity.  However, children can get excited over the silliest things.  I just hope it doesn't scare some poor, little kid and give it nightmares...

The purpose of a gift is to offer something that the receiver will like, be able to use, need, and combinations of any of these qualities.  To give something that you want someone to have is a selfish gift and not done in the true sense of giving.  I go out of My way to give good gifts because I care.

So, if you really want to give Me a gift, please SEE MY TRIBUTE PAGE so that We can both enjoy the beauty of your giving! 

10.

Smileys

More people need to learn what giving means; follow My lead.  I offer demos for free.  I respond to emails from people requesting advice who have never even met Me for free (I may have to put a stop to that, as I've been overwhelmed with hundreds of emails on a regular basis).  I offer tons of resources on My websites and participate on too many social networking sites.  Why?  Because I am a giver and enjoy sharing with the Community so We can all move forward towards happiness.  All that is required in return is respect.

However, there are too many ungrateful strays that I've taken pity on who think that because I have been kind enough to allow them anything in and/or from My Domain, that 1) they can dictate how they will behave in My Domain; 2) they can try to pull that "brat" behavior they manipulate their mothers with to attempt to force their desires to become reality; and this may be the worst of all, 3) they think that because they bought one, measly drink for Me at an event that I now owe them something.  idiots.

This leads to "duh" #11:

11.

READ My Website ~ especially before requesting to serve Me or attending any of My events.   The reason that I have (and anyone with a website has) taken the time to write things down and present them so nicely on the internet is so that people will know what to expect and what is expected.  Don't be so lazy and just look at the photos.  Everything you need to know is on My Website.
12.   No, male doms, NOT every woman ~ ESPECIALLY ME ~  secretly wants to sub to you, especially you.  RESPECT the fact that your fantasy will NEVER become My reality.  It would really be good for you to stop being the proof for the reasons I am a Female Supremacist.
Smileys
Having made things clear, I look forward to things being  just fine in 2009.   Party Plans are in the works! Smileys

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Fun Stuff!

After dealing with the "duh" zone, I took some time to enjoy Myself!  I found some cool stuff to bring joy and help spread the cheer!

Dungeons and Dungeons Game.  From the site: "The king and queen of kink present a night of pleasure... and pain!  One night only, with special guests: The Pleasurebots - 10,000 volts of pure sex appeal!  Attain the ultimate climax... But be careful... there's no safeword in this dungeon!"  This is a free, online game created by This Is Pop and is fun and hilarious!  Sadie and max travel through the dungeon, whipping, obtaining toys, and the sound effects are great!  Enjoy!  Special thanx to Mistress Rage for this pleasure!

Wrongcards.  Well, the name pretty much says it all.  From the site: "If you feel that most of the freaking greeting cards in the world are nothing more than crass, mass-produced tokens of insincere sentiment, then you would be right, and so: welcome to Wrongcards... Our ecards are free to send, and they will always be free to send. Wrongcards is not intended for mass-appeal, nor is it intended for the mainstream." 

The Matrix Runs On Windows.  This is a very creative video that will make anyone who uses Windows definitely start to wonder...

The Wet Spots.  From their press kit: "Picture a husband and wife team from the golden age of comedy. Now picture them singing sweetly about threesomes and taking it in the [a##]. Internationally acclaimed cabaret duo The Wet Spots (Cass King and John Woods) write the most elegant songs about sex that you will ever hear. The pair presents an image that is vaudevillian, oversexed, and weirdly Canadian: Think sex club by way of Monty Python. Using a lively blend of original songs, audience interaction, spankings and singalongs, The Wet Spots draw their fans into a world where the libido is celebrated and satirized."  View video and enjoy!

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The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory


My latest contribution to The Fetish Arts is  The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, which consists of a complete curriculum beyond the typical training for the Elegant Lady and the Superior Sissy Maid. 

I have designed My techniques according to My beliefs in Fetish as an Evolutionary Process.  With precise instruction, the Woman Within can flourish, blossom, and emerge from the caterpillar to the butterfly.

As always, My Classic Fetish™ Philosophy is at the forefront of the Conservatory's mission.   Visit My My Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory website to discover the unique qualities that will bring forth the Woman Within with divine eloquence and excellence.  Gatherings (including My famous Tea Parties), shopping, outings, and more!

[c] The Mistress Didi*

The Mistress Didi* & miss erin
photo by Sean Friedman Photography 

For a "freeview" of the type of detailed techniques that are standard at The Classic CrossDresser™ Conservatory, you can view complimentary lessons including  How To Walk In High Heels demo video of samples from My GoddessGlide™ Workshop and Graceful Hands Part 1.

NEW!  Easy Wig Care Tips!   Click on Complimentary!

Win a scholarship!  Win a work-study internship!  A new winner is chosen each month!  Enter as many times as you'd like!   Check it out There are no better tuition and scholarship opportunities anywhere. 

Click Here For Details and Follow Instructions Carefully!

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Community Tidbits


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Classic Fetish™ Resources

I have made an addendum to Domme v. dumme in  The Mistress Didi*s Articles including The Importance of Rituals & Protocols, How To Approach A Mistress, Domme vs. dumme,  and submissive vs. substandard  NEW: Easy Wig Care Tips!

~ Human Bird Cage May Be Sold - Still A Chance to Own it!   See Video for details.

~ Make Cell Phone Companies Accountable.  I have taken the time to compile a detailed list on how to deal with cell phone company complaints.  Now, of course, the process is set up to annoy you, consume too much time and energy, and basically get you running around in circles.  However, if enough people follow the proper procedures - especially through government and legal channels -  cell phone companies will have to be accountable for all their heinous crimes.  I have compiled the information HERE where you can bookmark it and refer to it EVERY TIME YOU NEED TO.  Once enough people make a fuss, elected officials will get the bright idea that yes, We, The People need a bill(s) sponsored in Congress to regulate the thievery!   I have made it easy for you.  Now, DO YOUR PART to see that We, The People, are treated with respect for the money We pay these companies for what should be a basic service at affordable prices for everyone.  AND, Goddess that I am, I have included a link to amazing resources for you and your cell phone.  CLICK HERE

***MORE CELL PHONE NEWS - California judge rules early cell phone termination fees illegal.  Now, DO YOUR PART - CLICK HERE.

Unique Handmade Bondage & SM Leather Gear~ BIG NEWS  ~ Rawhide Cane Sale ~ TabooLeather.com sells rawhide canes at an incredible price!  How's $14.95 for you?  How about 2 styles in Natural, Purple, Black & Pink?  I want them all!!!!  Visit TabooLeather.com and search (upper left corner) for "rawhide".  The cane that I use in My My How To Use A Rawhide Cane Video tidbit was a tribute that cost $40, 3 years ago!  So, take the opportunity to receive a great bargain!   Click the link to My How To Use A Rawhide Cane on the order page.

And while you're at Taboo Leather, create your own Wish List!  And visit My Wish List by typing in My email address ~ MistressDidi1 @ yahoo.com.

~ The Courage to Submit The Guide for the Submissive Male Seeking a Dominant Woman by by Wallace Vernor.  The Courage to Submit is a book for submissive men from a submissive man. It outlines strategies and techniques to help a man meet and serve a dominant woman.  This book was written by a submissive to a Domina Friend, so he is living what he speaks and walking his talk!

Miss Rubber World 2009 & The New York Rubber Ball

From the Press Release:

Announcing the 3rd annual New York Rubber Ball/Miss Rubber World Contest, Sunday Jan. 18th, 2009 (MLK weekend), at Rebel, 251 W. 30th St. (between 7th and 8th Ave.) in the heart of Manhattan. Join us for a full evening of rubbery joy in our new 7,000sq. ft. home just a block from Penn Station. 

Miss Rubber World contestants will be competing for already over $11,400 in prizes, including a 7 day trip for two to Kink in the Caribbean 2009 at Hedonism III in Jamaica.

Tickets at the door are $50 each or $60 for couples, so buddy up and save! Advance Discount Tickets ($10 off) can be bought online through Jan. 18th through the website: www.nyrubberball.com

Good Works!

~ The Vicktory Dogs at Best Friends Sanctuary.  From the site: "We call them the Vicktory Dogs - 22 pit bulls seized from ex-NFL star michael vick and placed in special care at Best Friends Animal Sanctuary. They're here because they had nowhere else to go. Many of them are suffering from serious psychological and emotional trauma, similar to what you see in children from situations of abuse and neglect. Many of them had been forced to fight to the death - like gladiators in some primitive arena. Other national organizations had simply called for the dogs to be killed. But what kind of message does that send about how our society treats the victims of such horrible abuse? There are real options, and with your support these dogs can have good lives that make up for everything that went before.  Already they're making progress: learning how to play, how to relax, how to love. Many of them will be adopted to experienced homes. Others will live out their lives in the beautiful environment of Best Friends Animal Sanctuary.  Follow their progress as they start new lives here at the nation's largest refuge for abused and abandoned animals."   Meet The Dogs and Read Their Inspirational Stories.

This has to be one of the most fabulous animal sanctuaries in the world!  Best Friends Sanctuary is housed in Angel Canyon, at the heart of the Golden Circle of national parks in Southern Utah, where the animals - all rescued and have special needs where adoption, foster homes, and shelters are not options for them - everything from birds to horses, cats and dogs, pigs, fish, exotic creatures, and wild things!  After receiving the proper care and training, many animals move on to good homes and adopt good families.  Others spend the rest of their lives with love and care at the Sanctuary in their own little villages such as Dog Town, Cat World, Horse Haven, Parrot Garden, Piggy Paradise, Bunny House, Wild Friends, and The Clinic It's not just a sanctuary for animals.  About 20,000 people visit every year from all over the world and spend time with the animals, and you're only an hour or so from some of the world's other great natural miracles.  

I want to plan a trip to visit ~ anyone want to come along?  MUST be a REAL animal lover and a big ol' mush.

~ Puppies Behind Bars.  Puppies Behind Bars (PBB) instructs prison inmates on how to raise and train puppies who become service dogs for people with disabilities and bomb detection canines for law enforcement.  Many of these puppies are being placed with veterans returning from Iraq and Afghanistan.  Currently, the Puppies Behind Bars program is active in seven prisons in NY, NJ and CT.  The dogs are free guests of the correctional facility, but the program is a registered charity and support is always welcome.  The guards and the administrators welcome them because they have noticed the positive effect that the PBB program and the puppies haves had on inmates.  Inmates go through a very comprehensive and intensive training program in order to work with these dogs.  View videos about the program and learn more how you can help the Puppies Behind Bars thrive HERE ~ sponsor a service dog today!   Read a great article about the lives of the dogs and inmates HERE.

  Learn more about service animals here.

~ The Rescue Sites.  The GreaterGood Network of websites, owned and operated by CharityUSA.com, LLC., is a family of online activism sites that harness the power of the Internet to help people, animals, and causes in need.  These websites bring together communities that care, giving you the power to make a difference in the world with simple, every day actions. You can benefit leading nonprofit organizations by choosing from a range of activities including clicking on the free contribution button daily, and shopping for gifts, apparel, jewelry, and home décor in their do-good stores to give even more funding.  Included are The Hunger Site, The Animal Rescue Site, The Literacy Site, The Child Health Site, The Rainforest Site, The Breast Cancer Site, and other worthy causes.  Please click once per day on each.

~ Homeless Gear.  The mission of Homeless Gear is a simple one. Collect unwanted outdoor gear (packs, sleeping bags, etc) and re-distribute these items to the homeless. Homeless Gear intends to find a home for all unwanted outdoor gear and make the outdoors a little more like home for those without permanent shelter.  A segment of the homeless community can not gain entrance into overnight shelters because they have issues with drug or alcohol use. Even if they do find overnight shelter they have to spend the majority of their day outside in the elements. Imagine what a sleeping bag would do for someone forced to sleep or spend the day in their car or under a bridge.

~ FreeRice is a great way to contribute to the world hunger problem while enhancing your vocabulary.  So, it is not only good for you, it is great for your kids.  For each word that you correctly know the meaning of, several grains of rice are placed in a virtual bowl.  When the bowl is full, you continue to create another bowl.  The bowls of rice you create are donated to starving nations.  The site keeps track of your best score and stays challenging with a wide variety of words.  So, feed the hungry every day with FreeRice.  I contribute at least 1000 grains every day.  Go for it!

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Spam Folder Tip


I REALLY dislike SPAM, but worse, I dislike when My emails go into Y/your spam folder because people did not follow the easy instructions to make sure that Y/you receive My Emails.

So, here's a tip for easy viewing of Y/your spam folder: alphabetize the FROM column.  Y/you should be able to click on the small toolbar above your emails that lists who the emails are from, the subject, etc.  If Y/you click on the FROM tab, your emails should sort alphabetically.  The same goes for navigating your emails by clicking on the Date, Subject and other tabs to sort them for easy reading.  This little tip will save Y/you a lot of time and aggravation.

And be certain to CHECK YOUR SPAM FOLDER every day!

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See, Play, and Party with Y/you very, VERY soon!

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Stimulating Quotes


"Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity."
~
 
Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

"Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.

"Betrayal does that -- betrays the betrayer."
Erica Jong

"Racism is man's gravest threat to man -
the maximum of hatred for a minimum of reason.
"
~  
Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel

"Happiness is a how; not a what. A talent, not an object."
~ Hermann Hesse


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Enjoy!

Always MY Pleasure,
The Mistress Didi*
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